Inedible wrote:I thought that WA was likely to wait for my abilities to allow communication and that DA was likely to push harder and harder until it got my attention. The WA side has to avoid causing harm and it has to wait for my free will. Or something like that. These are things that the DA side doesn't seem to be restricted to. So let's say I buy a custom conjure Succubus and either it works or it doesn't. What then? I have bought Spells for protection, but it is something I rarely think about. And I don't want to have to do house rules.
You contacted the conjurer, who performed the requisite ritual(s) and sent their vessel to you. That's as much "waiting for your free will" as most spirits I've met would consider necessary.
If you're bringing DA home, you really will want house rules, especially if you opt to go for the darker end of the DA scale. Then you can set boundaries for when they can do as they wish, vs. when they need to abide by the limits that you are comfortable with.