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Hey, i just wanted to get some advice from other more experienced keepers. I told my wife that i had ordered a spirit, a charging box, and a few items with spells. She is really afraid that these items, and spirit, will one day hurt me, her, or our child. Nothing I can say or have shown her has convinced her in any way. She is just really scared of all of this. Any thoughts or advice on what to do?


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Is just the natural fear of the unknown that we all humans have, we humans are teached to fear the unkown since our childhood and you my friend have begun taken steps into breaking through that fear by inving spirits into your home, i am pretty sure she will eventually get used to the idea of you having spirits around, just keep telling her that your spirit are not here to harm or scare but to help you in your daily life, in anyway we are always surround by unbounds spirits so its not like thing are going to change around you or her most likely your spirits will keep troublesome unbounds away.


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I haven't personally gone through this with Mr. Crash, but I had a friend who was aware of and deathly afraid of spirits. She had some terrible experiences that made her not want anything to do with them.

You might want to have a conversation with your wife and find out if she has had bad experiences in the past--that might account for her reaction, and you should proceed accordingly based on that. It would be unfair to her to force her to have to cope with having spirits around her if her only prior experiences were bad. If it's just because of things she's heard or clinging to religious dogma, then it's a matter of getting her to see that there's really nothing to fear when your bindings are from a reputable practitioner, which will take some time and patience to overcome on your part.

Good luck.


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Thanks for the advice everyone, ill see what she thinks


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CrashingDown wrote:I haven't personally gone through this with Mr. Crash, but I had a friend who was aware of and deathly afraid of spirits. She had some terrible experiences that made her not want anything to do with them.

You might want to have a conversation with your wife and find out if she has had bad experiences in the past--that might account for her reaction, and you should proceed accordingly based on that. It would be unfair to her to force her to have to cope with having spirits around her if her only prior experiences were bad. If it's just because of things she's heard or clinging to religious dogma, then it's a matter of getting her to see that there's really nothing to fear when your bindings are from a reputable practitioner, which will take some time and patience to overcome on your part.

Good luck.
I had asked if she had any bad experiences in the past, and she hasn't. She's just very adamant that spirits and magic shouldn't be "messed with" . She's not a serious religious person, but she believes that magic is something made by Satan to trick us into hurting ourselves with it. She's the most rock hard stubborn person when it comes to her beliefs, so i doubt ill change them. Good news is that we did come to a compromise. As long as I stick to white arts and she never interacts with them, I'm free to do as I wish.
AlejandroMEX wrote:Is just the natural fear of the unknown that we all humans have, we humans are teached to fear the unkown since our childhood and you my friend have begun taken steps into breaking through that fear by inving spirits into your home, i am pretty sure she will eventually get used to the idea of you having spirits around, just keep telling her that your spirit are not here to harm or scare but to help you in your daily life, in anyway we are always surround by unbounds spirits so its not like thing are going to change around you or her most likely your spirits will keep troublesome unbounds away.

That is part of the issue. She doesn't understand them and this "new" world. So she's deathly afraid of them and what they could do. Her argument back about helping me is "What could they help you with that someone else or myself couldn't help you with."


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If you and your wife thinks that dark arts means evil then you are both wrong we humans are dark arts meaning we have the choice to do both good and bad, a dark arts being can be just as loving as a white arts being if not even more, i have both white arts and dark arts and some of my dark arts beings are just too loving you might confuse them for an angel! why she thinks magic was created by satan to hurts us? then why there is white magic!!!??? to me it looks indeed shes just too stuck into her believes and refuses to question what she has been told, human society and beliefs is built with lies and deciet and as you have started discovering by yourself when you decided to invite spirits into your home.


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AlejandroMEX wrote:If you and your wife thinks that dark arts means evil then you are both wrong we humans are dark arts meaning we have the choice to do both good and bad, a dark arts being can be just as loving as a white arts being if not even more, i have both white arts and dark arts and some of my dark arts beings are just too loving you might confuse them for an angel! why she thinks magic was created by satan to hurts us? then why there is white magic!!!??? to me it looks indeed shes just too stuck into her believes and refuses to question what she has been told, human society and beliefs is built with lies and deciet and as you have started discovering by yourself when you decided to invite spirits into your home.

She is just very much stuck in her ways. I tried to explain to her what Dark(Grey) Arts were, but she just wasn't having it. I don't think Dark Arts mean evil, my one spirit i have right now is a Succubus, and she has been very kind to me


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theres black arts, dark arts, and white arts, dark arts is what we humans are, black arts is what your wife is probably afraid of so she must be confusing dark arts with black arts, black arts are just pure evil and incapable of doing any good, where as dark arts are able to do both good and bad and white arts are only able to do good, usually a dark arts being like for example a hellhound, will do something that we consider dark but in defense of their human keeper, like for example punish those that wrong you in anyway, still house rules is a must for dark arts for this same reason because you dont want your dark arts spirit punishing those that wrong you all the time etc.


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