Thank you so much Magnolia, I swear I love you sometimes.creepyhollows wrote:I would say that if your conjurer doesn't give you any specific instructions that need to be followed, then you are fine to use any general welcoming ritual. Depending on the spirit & your present energy state you could have success with welcoming rituals from multiple sources. Sometimes even something as simple as reading your favorite poetry or listening to your favorite music with a spirit when they first come to you is better than any pre-written ritual. Sometimes pomp & circumstance isn't needed, sometimes it's better just to be yourself. When you are doing an activity, listening to music, reading literature, or doing anything else that you truly enjoy, you are the most in your element, which is being true to yourself & not only do other humans respond to you best that way, so do spirits.
This is some of the best bonding/welcoming advice I've ever heard...I'll try and be more personal initially instead of waiting until I feel them to try and full bond.