Does your partner know about your sexual spirit?

TankStare · Wed Feb 29, 2012 2:41 am

Just curious, for those who own sexual spirits (nympho, succubi/incubi, sexual vampires/djinns, cambions, etc.)... is your partner aware that you have one? If so, do they mind?

Also, just for fun, would you mind if your partner had sexual spirits as well?

Merch · Wed Feb 29, 2012 2:43 am

Yes he does, and no he doesn't mind. He also has a few of his own. Well one. LOL I have a few more than one. *whistles* :sly:

sapiiii · Wed Feb 29, 2012 3:25 am

judging from my wife character, no i won't inform her.

it's already hard for her to accept me as spirits keeper, divulging more is pointless

Dom1487 · Wed Feb 29, 2012 4:00 am

yup she does haha both of my succubi and my nympho

Maythen21 · Wed Feb 29, 2012 6:57 am

My husband knows and it isn't an issue. However, I will say that there was an issue with an unbound when we were in our 20's that caused quite a marital spat. But he's over it now, and they've become somewhat grudging friends.

At this point he's probably grateful for the assistance.

: Without getting too vulgar I must admit to a rather enhanced drive.

He doesn't have any, and I'm not sure I would want him to. (what an aweful double standard) Fortunatly he isn't interested, insisting I'm more than enough.

Cell28 · Wed Feb 29, 2012 7:10 am

Maythen21 wrote:My husband knows and it isn't an issue. However, I will say that there was an issue with an unbound when we were in our 20's that caused quite a marital spat. But he's over it now, and they've become somewhat grudging friends.

At this point he's probably grateful for the assistance. : Without getting too vulgar I must admit to a rather enhanced drive.

He doesn't have any, and I'm not sure I would want him to. (what an aweful double standard) Fortunatly he isn't interested, insisting I'm more than enough.

Haha, same here..-lol.
(Love double standard, btw..

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And since he hasn't requested any sex spirit for his own entertainment..- I keep my mouth shut, and just smile.. :sly:

Ghostly Decibels · Wed Feb 29, 2012 8:18 am

I was a little weirded out by the idea of sex spirits in the beginning for the sole reason that I felt kind of odd about it but since a cambion found his way to me on a reverse adoption, I've changed my mind. I don't tell my partner because he'd be super creeped out. I broached the subject once about people keeping sex spirits on here and he made a sound like Beavis & Butthead. He's already weirded out by CH... even though he learned early on that I'm clairvoyant and have been enmeshed in metaphysical stuff my entire life... it's still something he struggles with at times.. so the answer is no, I'm in the closet... I don't have very many, just my cambion and two entities from Bun Bun, newly-acquired. I wouldn't care if he got into spirit-keeping and kept a few nymphos... why would I begrudge the surge in sexual energy that would bring?

Noctua · Wed Feb 29, 2012 8:28 am

Each boyfriend i've had since starting on my spirit-keeping journey, has known about the amorous spirits surrounding me.
Sure, the one I was involved with when this began had his problems with it.. had his criticisms of spirit-keeping itself. Suffice it to say, an ex is an ex for a reason..not meshing well on that front is just one reason.
I don't think I can be in such a serious relationship with somebody who isn't aware, and accepting, of this path (including spirits deemed "sexual"). I prefer to be open about these things, and of course the spirits I bring into my life..their presence cannot be compromised, they are all here for a reason.

starfire · Wed Feb 29, 2012 11:09 am

No my hubby doesn't know, but knowing him, I don't think it would bother him in the least, as he has a heart condition and the meds with this condition is not good for the sexual drive!!!!

I been letting him know about some aspect of spirit keeping, a little bit at a time so he doesn't get too werided out!!!!

As for as the sexual spirit, he would laugh and says he needs all the help he can get, as I have a high drive as well!!!! :lol:

So it is a little bit at a time for him!!!!!

starfire

:dragons::

Raven · Thu Mar 01, 2012 8:49 am

For me, whether or not I told a partner about my sexual spirits & entities would depend on their views towards spirits and spirit keeping. If they were a believer or at least open-minded about them, then I'd have no problems sharing that part of myself with them. If not, then I'd keep it to myself.

As for the second question, I'd have no problems with a partner who wanted to keep sexual spirits & entities...as I see it as another way to increase the bond and enhance the physical pleasure between us.

Does your partner know about your sexual spirit?

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