.. Not only for the opposite sex but also for intimidating women as well. I find people dont take me seriously and assume I dont know how to do this or whatever, I can tell they see me as a little kid (doesnt help that Im 5'2" either), and I want them to feel that I am being dead serious about what I say.

I am thinking about getting another empusa, so far shes been great and the only one I find that shows her presence more than my others..

I do have a gryphon and so far Im still trying to bond but she has managed to give me some good opportunities here and there. But still would like to have that intimidation that people will take me serious as a boss.

Also what other spirit helps to make you more attractive to the opposite sex beside an empusa? Cleo djinn? my sister wants to find herself a good man, she wants to "lose weight" though as she think men dont find her attractive so Id like to give her a boost. Thanks

A Wraith. They are very good at it.

Persuasion and intimidation: ogre
For your sister, cleo djinn and goddess Venus/Aphrodite.

mcslade1 wrote:A Wraith. They are very good at it.

hello! ive been wanting a wraith for a while now so I suppose this gives me a reason other than protection to get one.

I do have an ogre, hasnt helped too much yet, but I will keep asking him for help in this area. Why oh why couldnt I have had height! I hate being so short!

Totally sucks!

No matter what you get, unless you can get people to see that you are serious, they will still take everything as a joke. You must stand out and take yourself seriously first, then your spirits will help.

Oh believe you me, I take myself very seriously, Im heaps determined but Im finding it very hard for people to take me seriously as a person. This isnt the first time either, people assume because they are taller they can use that to intimidate me and tell me what to do even though I have a higher work status than they do (high school was the same). I refuse to take orders from them and they dont end up doing it themselves as they dont take orders from me, it also doesnt help that i am much younger than they are as well.. But because they have years of experience the owner wont let them go due to their clientele etc..

tiamax wrote:Oh believe you me, I take myself very seriously, Im heaps determined but Im finding it very hard for people to take me seriously as a person. This isnt the first time either, people assume because they are taller they can use that to intimidate me and tell me what to do even though I have a higher work status than they do (high school was the same). I refuse to take orders from them and they dont end up doing it themselves as they dont take orders from me, it also doesnt help that i am much younger than they are as well.. But because they have years of experience the owner wont let them go due to their clientele etc..

Unfortunately that is a problem. Have you ever tried asserting your authority by write-ups?

tiamax wrote:.. Not only for the opposite sex but also for intimidating women as well. I find people dont take me seriously and assume I dont know how to do this or whatever, I can tell they see me as a little kid (doesnt help that Im 5'2" either), and I want them to feel that I am being dead serious about what I say.

I am thinking about getting another empusa, so far shes been great and the only one I find that shows her presence more than my others..

I do have a gryphon and so far Im still trying to bond but she has managed to give me some good opportunities here and there. But still would like to have that intimidation that people will take me serious as a boss.

Also what other spirit helps to make you more attractive to the opposite sex beside an empusa? Cleo djinn? my sister wants to find herself a good man, she wants to "lose weight" though as she think men dont find her attractive so Id like to give her a boost. Thanks

Attractive to the opposite sex: vampires and cambions

I read on somehow similar thread that aside from the spirits mentioned, a basilisk can help too.

I am about the same height as you and I look a lot younger than I am, but people always take me seriously. I am mindful of my posture, so I always walk with my back straight and head high. I also speak with a strong voice. I believe that is because people listen to me.