putting the singles meet and greet in a tenured area

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there were other reasons for putting this in the tenure section....one of them being that how are you to contact that person that you'd like to get to know without everyone else knowing that you like them? non-tenure members don't have PM's. nor are you ALLOWED to post your email address or fb address. so how would you communicate with them? that was the other reason.
aternity wrote:That wouldn't be fair to the rest of us who are not tenured yet....

Nightraven: lol they'll answer soon, they're probably still in a shock and Awww with that pic you put up.take them time to digest it all... :thumbup:
not to mention there are only three people who were brave enough to put their profiles on there. so where is everyone else's profiles, that are stating "this isn't fair"? it kind of reminds me of the children's section that CH made for parents and how several people commented on "what a wonderful ideal." yet no one is using that at all.


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Dark Abyss wrote:there were other reasons for putting this in the tenure section....one of them being that how are you to contact that person that you'd like to get to know without everyone else knowing that you like them? non-tenure members don't have PM's. nor are you ALLOWED to post your email address or fb address. so how would you communicate with them? that was the other reason.
aternity wrote:That wouldn't be fair to the rest of us who are not tenured yet....

Nightraven: lol they'll answer soon, they're probably still in a shock and Awww with that pic you put up.take them time to digest it all... :thumbup:
not to mention there are only three people who were brave enough to put their profiles on there. so where is everyone else's profiles, that are stating "this isn't fair"? it kind of reminds me of the children's section that CH made for parents and how several people commented on "what a wonderful ideal." yet no one is using that at all.

I don't think there's an issue with letting everyone know you like someone, the only reason others didn't put their profiles is because we can't put our contact info to further communicate with them...
"this isn't fair" i'd say is a fair statement.... we are all here as one big team,by separating certain members seems like favoritism....

Either way, whatever is decided in the end is cool with me, i'm not complaining, just stating some true facts on how some new people would feel knowing they got separated and thought we were all here to be one big happy family.. :silly:


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aternity wrote:"this isn't fair" i'd say is a fair statement.... we are all here as one big team,by separating certain members seems like favoritism....
::facepalm:: there is a lot of stuff on the forum that isn't accessible until you are tenured... it is not favoritism, people have put in their time to show that they are personally invested in this community...

Personals are a big step with lots of personal information - it is important to keep this safeguarded.


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creepyhollows wrote:FYI, there are only about 100 members who are Tenured, and I'm not sure if there are enough singles in just the Tenured area? We can put it in the Registered area, which means that you have to be registered in order to see it.
That would be great :thumbup: I would feel safe as long as it wasn't open to the general public


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Why not both? Tenured and non tenured. That way you can still filrt in public, but get a little more serious in a more discreet atmosphere.


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RaeNebula wrote:Why not both? Tenured and non tenured. That way you can still filrt in public, but get a little more serious in a more discreet atmosphere.
because again, what happens when one person is tenure and the other isn't or you have two people who aren't tenure and they'd like to take things a little bit more serious? how are they suppose to contact each other when emails and fb addys aren't allowed?


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I think the whole section is a terrible idea for the awkward type of drama that it could spawn, but that's just me.. lol.


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aternity wrote:That wouldn't be fair to the rest of us who are not tenured yet....

Nightraven: lol they'll answer soon, they're probably still in a shock and Awww with that pic you put up.take them time to digest it all... :thumbup:
Just FYI...but it doesn't take many posts to be considered "registered" (since Mags suggested making that the restriction instead)...but you can apply for tenure after 6 months on the forums. :)


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RaeNebula wrote:Why not both? Tenured and non tenured. That way you can still filrt in public, but get a little more serious in a more discreet atmosphere.
because again, what happens when one person is tenure and the other isn't or you have two people who aren't tenure and they'd like to take things a little bit more serious? how are they suppose to contact each other when emails and fb addys aren't allowed?
This is a good point...if you're looking to get more intimately involved, how do you do that when you don't both have PM access? Wolfie and I found each other outside of CH. But if you meet on CH and don't run into each other elsewhere...what then? lol


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RaeNebula wrote:Why not both? Tenured and non tenured. That way you can still filrt in public, but get a little more serious in a more discreet atmosphere.
because again, what happens when one person is tenure and the other isn't or you have two people who aren't tenure and they'd like to take things a little bit more serious? how are they suppose to contact each other when emails and fb addys aren't allowed?
This is a good point...if you're looking to get more intimately involved, how do you do that when you don't both have PM access? Wolfie and I found each other outside of CH. But if you meet on CH and don't run into each other elsewhere...what then? lol
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