Hello, I've currently been looking for a human spirit to bring into my home who I can work with. I have one in mind, but the problem is she is from a very dark past and was a victim of a killer.... she was also only a child at the time. I feel a strong connection to her case and her for some unknown reason. If she was still alive, we would be almost the same age. The reason im asking if it is wrong to have her bound to a vessel is because her case has not been solved yet and has been going for about 26 years. there would be some amount of confusion and emotional pain. I feel as though I could help her, but her case is a touchy one. 1bg 1h

Maybe I was her in a past life and thats why I feel so strongly about it... idk.

It's understandable to be a bit apprehensive considering the situation, but keep in mind if a spirit does not wish to be bound they won't be bound by any reputable seller. Think of the binding itself as a contract or agreement of sorts. With most reputable sellers they would not bind a spirit against their will. If you feel drawn to her, my suggestion would be to speak with a seller and ask if they would be able to do a custom conjure of the spirit. Right and wrong is something that only you and the spirit can decide, mainly because right and wrong are so subjective and driven on environment and personal beliefs/morals. If you feel you can help this spirit out and she is willing, I don't personally see a problem with it. If a spirit, or even a human for that matter, has been on your mind for a while there is usually a reason. Suppose it's time for you to find out what that reason is? .

Well she was custom conjured, but I did ask for her specifically...

She has arrived and i've been talking to her... She seems to be reaching out for help and i feel as though shes still dealing with the pain of what happened.

:nice:: wow! This is really interesting! Do you mind me asking if this was a CH binding? Also did you know this individual personally? I can't imagine the confusion they must be going through. This is a very caring thing you are doing just be cautious. I would imagine that after the confusion clears there may be,understandably so,a lot of anger. Please keep us posted as things go along and Bright Blessings! 1ey

It's not wrong. It can be such a restorative and impressive experience to work with a spirit of an unresolved death; for both of you. It can be an unsettling experience sometimes but if you are someone who really loves to entertain your Medium abilities it will sometimes push you to the limit. I would not recommend it to anyone with a weak constitution because death memories or death visions of what happened to them in their last moments can make people sick; especially if you are seeing them from their point of view.

I commend you for taking this on as a Spirit Keeper, it is a path that is certainly personal and deep.

I don't think it's wrong, too, because I myself have human spirits, who experienced a violent death, too (a women, who was murdered brutally and her husband, who was forced to watch her die~) and I can agree with Magnolia, they can share very, very gruesome pictures (and dreams) with you.
But if you're willing to help them heal and go throught this together, they can become very close friends. It's very beneficial, but it's a very hard way.

cats_and_spirits wrote:I don't think it's wrong, too, because I myself have human spirits, who experienced a violent death, too (a women, who was murdered brutally and her husband, who was forced to watch her die~) and I can agree with Magnolia, they can share very, very gruesome pictures (and dreams) with you.
But if you're willing to help them heal and go throught this together, they can become very close friends. It's very beneficial, but it's a very hard way.

Did you ask for a husband and wife to be conjured together or did you get the lady human and later have her husband conjured?

gentleangelwhisperer wrote:

cats_and_spirits wrote:I don't think it's wrong, too, because I myself have human spirits, who experienced a violent death, too (a women, who was murdered brutally and her husband, who was forced to watch her die~) and I can agree with Magnolia, they can share very, very gruesome pictures (and dreams) with you.
But if you're willing to help them heal and go throught this together, they can become very close friends. It's very beneficial, but it's a very hard way.

Did you ask for a husband and wife to be conjured together or did you get the lady human and later have her husband conjured?

I "called" them myself (Conjured would be the wrong term I think~). I called out for the lady and her husband showed up and checked if I'm "safe to stay with", before his wife followed.

gentleangelwhisperer wrote:

cats_and_spirits wrote:I don't think it's wrong, too, because I myself have human spirits, who experienced a violent death, too (a women, who was murdered brutally and her husband, who was forced to watch her die~) and I can agree with Magnolia, they can share very, very gruesome pictures (and dreams) with you.
But if you're willing to help them heal and go throught this together, they can become very close friends. It's very beneficial, but it's a very hard way.

Did you ask for a husband and wife to be conjured together or did you get the lady human and later have her husband conjured?

Sorry, my post somehow disappeared in the waiting-to-approved-quene~ I will try to answer again:

I called them myself ("conjure" would be the wrong term~), or better said... I called her and first of all her husband showed up to check if "it's safe to stay with me", a few weeks later she followed. So, they were always together.