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I'm a chubby person, so I don't know if the Succubi will mind or not, I'm not chubby like I can't move or anything, I just weigh more and have a bit of extra plumpiness I'm gonna say xD

Great question

Their standards are not the same as ours. The real question is how you feel. Your mind, energy, and Spirit. Your willingness to give.

nope. They just care about the energy you emit. I quote another CH user: "[...] for beings it isn't our appearance, that attracts them, it is our unique energies. Sort of like the way bees are attracted to flowers. It's not really the pretty colors, but the scent of nectar inside."
(I love that quote :3)

If it is a custom conjuration, the conjurers would find one called to you and most suitable for you and/or your preference : )

Oh okay. That is good to know
Thank you all for the responses.

Of course it matters. They are just like humans. If they love you, they care about your health. Try lose some weight, take care of you body, build up some muscles. They enjoy a good scent also. That's why you light up aromatic incense sticks. Take a shower, use a deodorant and wash your teeth before interacting with them. 1ak

When you want to have a partner, even only for sex, you out to take care of yourself (body, hair, teeth, clothes).

Would you enjoy an unattractive partner in your bed? Guess not. I don't say that you are unattractive, but it begs the question, based upon your self description in the first post.

I'd say forget validation from others and just make sure that you have self-validation first. If you describe yourself as chubby and are okay with that that is enough. If you describe yourself as chubby and are not okay with that but are in the process of doing something about it or having a goal in mind/state of health/lifestyle then that too is okay. As long as you are comfortable, physically and mentally, that should be the main thing.

All our spirits, not just Ubi, see us as an energy signature. We are not our bodies.

Though if we do things that hurt our bodies' health, our spirits won't be happy about it. They want us to thrive.