This is question that haunts the minds of all newcomers. The answer
to that question lies with you. Not everyone can see, hear or
communicate with spirits. Sometimes it is just a matter of energy
make-up and sometimes it is just the non-belief that these things exist.
Humans are extraordinarily unique and so not everyone will experience
Spiritualism on the same level.
Some people are born with a natural gift of psychic nature or medium
powers to speak to the dead. Some have a natural affinity for the
mystical and spiritual and therefore seek out this lifestyle.
One thing is certain you are reading this right now for one of two
reasons: 1. you love the mystical and want to learn more about it so you
can practice it for yourself or 2. you are just curious. If you are
here for reason #1 then you are already on the right path towards
becoming someone who can keep and interact with spirits.
If you are someone who naturally is drawn to the spiritual,
metaphysical or paranormal then keeping spirits is going to be easy for
you and something that you'll tremendously enjoy. Being a Keeper brings
gifts, rewards and powers beyond your wildest dreams and they
positively impact your life forever.
If you are someone who is interested but have never looked into this
before then as long as your heart and mind are in the right place and
you are willing to work towards creating a relationship with spirits
you're a mile ahead. For some people it is more work than for others
but when you do make that connection for the first time it will blow you
out of the water!
It is impossible to tell you step by step exactly how a spirit is
going to react with you when everyone is different but as long as you
are willing to put your best foot foward you will find that the
spiritual world will welcome you.