Typically, yes. Anyone likes to have a leader and there are certainly some spirits who are better suited to being a leader & organizer than others. It is not a bad idea to have a stronger personality in your group of spirits but be sure that you include the spirits in your home in the decision & respect them. You should always be the ultimate leader in your home, especially if you are dealing with DA entities or spirits. However, you can have a spirit in your home who is a trusted friend who is a leader on their own level as well. This should be a decision of mutual respect & understanding.