ParaEnergy wrote:sadlotus79 wrote:ParaEnergy wrote:Dark Abyss wrote:its not about choosing sides, being right or wrong. its just that sometimes the search function will get you the information that you seek.
Sadlotus: "Farrel is right in asking if you used the search function.i have had a daemon for about 2 years now and posted a long time ago about some of my experiences
so ha ha if search function was used you would of seen them :silly: "
So you see, aparently it IS about being right and wrong. Dark Abyss, I'm not trying to get off on the wrong foot with you. As far as I see it, you been the most unbias while still trying to make the "venerated point". And I appreciate that. Truly. I would like you to know that I completely understand the point you are trying to get across. I do. I just think that sometimes silence is the best option. There are going to be 100's of new members after ME, who are going to ask the same questions. And I think, that if some people could figure out a different way of wording things, this same problem (with others) could be avoided in the future. That's all.
And in all of this I've learned some things. Not exactly the things I was HOPING to learn, but obviously what I was SUPPOSED to learn. I've learned character and the way some things operate.
And I'd just like to say "thank you" for trying to help me understand. I do understand
Respectfully,
~Para
OK first of all I DIDN'T post to piss you off but was confirming Farrel's point about using the search function.since you seemed irked by Farrel response to you.
it wasn't me trying to make a newb feel stupid or like they shouldn't ask questions.i even added teasing ''silly'' emote to show it was not a serious tone I was using.but yet again Ive been misunderstood.I was trying to diffuse the situation.
Thank you for trying to diffuse. I "rant" in off topic randomness if you care to take a look there.
And, please don't feel bad. I'm misunderstood 90% of every DAY. Online and off. I'm not starting fights, merely speaking my mind. And in "Where's the sense" found here
http://www.creepyhollows.com/phpBB3/vie ... 62&t=37379 I'm welcoming everyone else to do the same. This was posted in off topic randomness before I was made aware a section existed for such things.
To be safe and for the sake of not wearing out my welcome, I've decided I won't start anymore topics. I'll read everybody else's and only put in my two cents if I feel compelled to do so. This has nothing to do with you personally, Sadlotus,just rambling really lol I kinda think (and feel free to disagree) it's pointless for a noob to speak up because MOST venerated members are FOR venerated members and it could lead to chaos in the end. You know, a noob trying to make a point. But for the noob that's basically pointless! LMAO wow, here I go with the novel. So, THIS noob chic is gonna sit back, read and enjoy the ride. However long the ride lasts. It sure will help cut down in noob forum pollution.
A LOT of older members here have been absolutely WONDERFUL in making me feel welcome here I just need to put that out there.
Again, thank you for trying to diffuse the situation, sorry for the misunderstaning.
(extending hand for a shake)
Respectfully,
~Para
I doubt you could wear out your welcome here.
Noobs have every right to speak up and I do hope you continue to post.No one here should feel like they have no right to post.
as for ''most venerated members being for venerated members'' if i have understood you correctly you mean to say you believe that blues,green etc will always stick up for each other??
if so that is incorrect.I don't judge a member based on their colour here or how long they have been here as EACH member is valuable in some way.
FYI when I started here I felt like such an outsider,would sometimes post things only for them to not be noticed and felt ignored.I would give advice only for my response to be skipped over and an older members advice which was the same as mine getting the thanks.
I even remember asking a question once and an older member saying to me ''use the search function'' and i did feel hurt by it until I spoke with them about it and understood where they were coming from etc.and they were right and explained that they did not mean it in anyway to be an insult or reproof.they just came off more gruff sounding then they meant to.
I don't know if i speak for everyone but i don't consider anyone here to be a dumb little noob.
I remember being a noob and feeling overwhelmed by all the info and people who had already found their niche in the forum.it can be overwhelming to be the new kid.
so please continue to post and all you lurking noobs start posting and quit being shy :silly: i know you're out there ...
everyone here has something to contribute and even a ''noob'' can give you a whole new way of looking at things that a more ''seasoned'' member may have overlooked.
anyways I think i babbled enough but i wanted to clear the air with you.
When one tugs at a single thing in nature,he find it attached to the rest of the world.
John Muir
Men soon the faults of others learn
A few their virtues, too, find out;
But is there one—I have a doubt—
Who can his own defects discern?
Sanskrit Proverb
tagore.
Sorry again. Did not mean to bite your head off. I wanted to take "search" break it into pieces and shove it equally up everyone's A**es LOL! 
: It wasn't an attack on you personally. And I apologize you got the <<Removed by Mod>> end of that stick. ANWAY, that being said. Sorry again and thank you for attempting to help.
I was worried it might turn out to be another raincloud thread. Glad that my worries were for nothing.
