So my psy vamp, WR (who also happened to be my first ever spirit, he was also a CC), has been extremely overprotective and borderline obsessive. I've been receiving spirits through the mail lately and he's basically been blocking communication with my other spirits. Last night I got fed up with him and demanded that he leave me alone for 24 hours (which he has been doing, very reluctantly) but not before throwing a tantrum and throwing something off the wall (which was pretty sturdily secured so I know it didn't just magically fall off by itself). I'm not exactly sure what to do with this whole situation?

Mm how's your house rules?
You may want to ask him directly, why he's been overprotective and obsessive. There might be some specific reason, and you can plan what to do next after hearing his reasons.

He mite have good reason to be so protective or he mite just be a nutter ask him thy he's like he is

I have pretty extensive house rules that cover everything that I could think of. Although I didn't think that any of them would act the way WR did so I didn't put in there not to block communication or anything like that until after this whole ordeal. From what he's told me, he and I used to be lovers in a past life and he's just making sure I'm careful because I wasn't back then. He's not really sorry or remorseful over the whole situation, but he has agreed to back off and let me work with my other spirits without interfering.

darkwing wrote:Mm how's your house rules?
You may want to ask him directly, why he's been overprotective and obsessive. There might be some specific reason, and you can plan what to do next after hearing his reasons.

I second this. Definitely try to figure out what the problem is, maybe he does have a valid reason for behaving the way he is. Or maybe he's worried he'll be forgotten with all the new spirits coming into the home, and needs some reassurance. But you also might need to revise some house rules so he is not blocking communication to your other spirits, as well as lashing out at physical objects in your home.

gabrielledeann wrote:... not to block communication or anything like that until after this whole ordeal.

This is one good house rule, to ensure everyone receive fair treatment.

gabrielledeann wrote:From what he's told me, he and I used to be lovers in a past life and he's just making sure I'm careful because I wasn't back then. He's not really sorry or remorseful over the whole situation, but he has agreed to back off and let me work with my other spirits without interfering.

Good to hear everything works out well )