hi my first spirit which is a star faery came today and i really have alot of nooby questions is it okay to ask them here?

Of course, this is what we are here for!

Welcome and have fun with your new addition to your family. There will be a lot of exciting adventure from now on

so how do i communicate with my spirit?
do i have to talk to my spirit or do i meditate holding the vessel or what do i do?

Any a need all of those can w work.

i bought a pendulum for contacting spirits can i use that to communicate with my spirit?
if so how do i use it

I have used a pendulum to speak to my spirits before. You have to make sure to learn how to shield/protect yourself first so that you don't start talking to somebody you may not want to let in.

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Otherwise, once you have done that you basically hold up the pendulum so that it isn't swinging or anything, ask it a bunch of questions that you already know the answer to to calibrate it. Like "is the earth round?" "is the sky blue?" "Is today Thursday?" and then also ask it questions that you know are false to see if it swings the other way. Once that is done, you just relax your mind and ask your spirit if he or she wants to speak to you via pendulum. Sometimes, I have noticed, mine won't use the pendulum or absolutely despise using it and others LOVE it. I have bought spirit communication boards from the CH shop that I use so that they can say more than yes or no things.

As for communicating with your spirit, that way is completely up to you. Remember to never second guess yourself. Meditate, close your eyes, clear your mind from any thoughts. When I received my first spirit, I would use the visualization effect where you picture yourself in a meadow or whatever to see if anybody shows up. Do whatever is comfortable to you and know that it is a learning process. You don't learn to speak a foreign language fluently overnight (in comparison).

Good luck, and trust yourself Sometimes the hardest thing to overcome is the self doubt! I would always get frustrated and be like 'that wasnt them, that was just me thinking it was them!' which really makes things harder for you in the long run.

fyrelite wrote:I have used a pendulum to speak to my spirits before. You have to make sure to learn how to shield/protect yourself first so that you don't start talking to somebody you may not want to let in.

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Otherwise, once you have done that you basically hold up the pendulum so that it isn't swinging or anything, ask it a bunch of questions that you already know the answer to to calibrate it. Like "is the earth round?" "is the sky blue?" "Is today Thursday?" and then also ask it questions that you know are false to see if it swings the other way. Once that is done, you just relax your mind and ask your spirit if he or she wants to speak to you via pendulum. Sometimes, I have noticed, mine won't use the pendulum or absolutely despise using it and others LOVE it. I have bought spirit communication boards from the CH shop that I use so that they can say more than yes or no things.

As for communicating with your spirit, that way is completely up to you. Remember to never second guess yourself. Meditate, close your eyes, clear your mind from any thoughts. When I received my first spirit, I would use the visualization effect where you picture yourself in a meadow or whatever to see if anybody shows up. Do whatever is comfortable to you and know that it is a learning process. You don't learn to speak a foreign language fluently overnight (in comparison).

Good luck, and trust yourself Sometimes the hardest thing to overcome is the self doubt! I would always get frustrated and be like 'that wasnt them, that was just me thinking it was them!' which really makes things harder for you in the long run.

thanks alot for the info, i will try it with the pendulum.
is it possible to communicate with my spirit through thoughts can my spirit read my thoughts?
if i use the pendulum after callibrating do i need to callibrate it again later?
and do they speak out loud when using it or do i do it through thoughts? thanks in advance

I mostly communicate with my spirits through thought. I address them, as if I was trying to get a person's attention, so they know I am talking to them. That is my number one method of communicating. I always calibrate my pendulum before each use, just to make sure I know which direction my spirits are using for yes and no If you speak outloud, its up to you, I do but whatever way works best for you and your spirit family, that is up to you to decide!

Hello,
Welcome to CH and do share your experiences.