[quote="Opelia Rendon"]I normally stay out of these threads, but why the drama here on this site? Can't we just keep this site as a place to get info and discuss paranormal and magickal topics with like minded individuals who also spirit keep? We're human and we can express stress because life just hits you like a plane out of the blue while trying to cross a street. Express yourself and your situations in the venting area, but please don't drag this place through the mud.

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Hold it! The "drama started in the chat because wolves said he'll make it so that K. Hates me and will avoid me, via him using his Black Arts to do it.

What else was I supposed to do, I just defaulted into my defensive and protective self because I don't trust wolves.... for all I know, he would do that.

Mizu-Taki wrote:

Opelia Rendon wrote:I normally stay out of these threads, but why the drama here on this site? Can't we just keep this site as a place to get info and discuss paranormal and magickal topics with like minded individuals who also spirit keep? We're human and we can express stress because life just hits you like a plane out of the blue while trying to cross a street. Express yourself and your situations in the venting area, but please don't drag this place through the mud.

Back on topic. I too cannot see the


chat...[/quot

Hold it! The "drama started in the chat because wolves said he'll make it so that K. Hates me and will avoid me, via him using his Black Arts to do it.

What else was I supposed to do, I just defaulted into my defensive and protective self because I don't trust wolves.... for all I know, he would do that.

Jeez dude, Chill. It'll all blow over soon.

Mizu, from the very start, I thought that CH chat isn't quite your thing. You always try to get free stuff, and would prefer shortcuts over learning. You like to hide behind "entertaining" alibis, not really caring if it's in your expense. Your history tells me a lot, too.

I really think that, in the end, your heart isn't in the right place, and have concluded that you're best off taking a hiatus so that you could mature. This is the true meaning behind "I'll see you in 5 years".

Nonetheless, I really wish you the best, but as it stands, you have an immature streak that I think will resolve by itself with time and the reflective effect that "others" will have on you. Which brings me to the next point.

You can't help but run from yourself. I see this, many others see this. It goes to the point where, every day, it seems like nothing changed. You always end up reacting defensively to any attempts of helping you.

I can say this, though. What's your problem with wolves? Why do you have to pick on the little guy? He literally did nothing wrong. You were advised to leave wolves alone by everyone, even wolves himself, and yet every day, you can't help but engage him, nay, provoke him for things he didn't do, going so far as to threaten him. What do you expect to come from that? A few smiles and a pat on your back? You got the big guys called in. Here's the catch about calling the big guys in to help you: they won't necessarily see things your way.

Does wolves even care at this point? Anyone who paid attention knows that threats and guilt trips do not work on him because he quite frankly doesn't care. Even now, you speak of him in this thread and he hasn't showed up.

Just wait and see what happens, instead of going to CH sit down with your spirit family and spend time with them or something. Not too much we can do.

Wolves picks on me, thats why I pick on him.

Yes, I have a immature streak at time (or all the time, take your pick) but CH Chat usually gives me someone to talk to, and its quicker to get answers for questions there.

Also.,I felt threatened by HIM. Because of what he said, I naturally got defensive over it, because I care for K. And I don't want wolves to ruin my friendship with her with his BA.

I strongly suspect wolves is about as interested in using the black arts as I am in getting up to change the channel on the television instead of using the remote.

Alys wrote:I strongly suspect wolves is about as interested in using the black arts as I am in getting up to change the channel on the television instead of using the remote.

I overreacted..... I'm sorry everyone, I just hate it when I feel like someone is threatening the ones I care a bout, or when they say they're going to do something to them.

You’re still quite young right? It’s OK dude sometimes we do things that we regret and I’m sure this is something everyone relates to hear. So don’t beat yourself up.

Dasadon wrote:You’re still quite young right? It’s OK dude sometimes we do things that we regret and I’m sure this is something everyone relates to hear. So don’t beat yourself up.

I tend to beat myself up, I have no self confidence at all, I always think I suck at a lot of stuff, but K. Gives me a lot confidence.