How long do you normally wait before purchasing another Spirit? Also, as a follow up question, for those that have bought more than one spirit at once (such a listings that offer groups of Spirits) do they ever seem...unhappy with you for it...
I don't plan on purchasing another for awhile myself, but I do have some listings on a Wishlist and have debated on whether or not it'd even be a good idea. I would assume that thirty days would be a minimum so you can devote time to those whom you already have but then does that mean you spend thirty days on each group Spirit too... How do you personally handle this sort of thing? ;
Myself, I've brought home several spirits and entities at a time before, sometimes from a few different sellers even. I've also brought home just one spirit and that was it for several months. I've also done 30 days of group bonding before, if I've welcomed several spirits at once.
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I don't have a standard, but often I beat myself up after the fact if I don't have the thirty days for initial bonding in between. I also feel overloaded because I then try to pull off multiple bondings in Type A fashion at the same time.
It's really up to you. I have brought groups of spirits home multiple times. I group bond constantly every day. By that, I mean I talk to them all and after meditating, or even when I don't meditate, I sit audience by asking anyone to come forward who wants to. I try to give them all time to come forward.
In the meantime I also want to get to know them better individually, so I focus on 30 days closely with each in turn. To summarize, I have 21 spirits that I ordered quickly, and I've wrapped up 30 days close bonding with four, and in the middle of working with number five. I also let them decide the order of bonding as much as I can, or go with my gut instinct if it's unclear.
As for them being upset, they've never expressed anger or dissatisfaction about the 30 days. They expressed concern about what happens after 30 days (like I'm going to forget them or something) but never upset. A few are impatient, and those are usually constant companions whether it's their turn or not, or they tell me straight up they're next.
The bottom line is go with what feels comfortable to you and remember that before they come to you they usually have a really good idea what they're walking into - what kind of keeper you are and what your intentions are. You never have to feel bad because time is also nonexistent to them.
On another note, and you can take this as you will, my spirits have told me bonding starts with all of them as soon as they arrive or are bound, and not to stress it. You also are going to spend a lifetime getting to know them so don't be hard on yourself over it. Mine have been very understanding and I'm sure yours would be too.
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Regholdain wrote:It's really up to you. I have brought groups of spirits home multiple times. I group bond constantly every day. By that, I mean I talk to them all and after meditating, or even when I don't meditate, I sit audience by asking anyone to come forward who wants to. I try to give them all time to come forward.
In the meantime I also want to get to know them better individually, so I focus on 30 days closely with each in turn. To summarize, I have 21 spirits that I ordered quickly, and I've wrapped up 30 days close bonding with four, and in the middle of working with number five. I also let them decide the order of bonding as much as I can, or go with my gut instinct if it's unclear.
As for them being upset, they've never expressed anger or dissatisfaction about the 30 days. They expressed concern about what happens after 30 days (like I'm going to forget them or something) but never upset. A few are impatient, and those are usually constant companions whether it's their turn or not, or they tell me straight up they're next.
The bottom line is go with what feels comfortable to you and remember that before they come to you they usually have a really good idea what they're walking into - what kind of keeper you are and what your intentions are. You never have to feel bad because time is also nonexistent to them.
On another note, and you can take this as you will, my spirits have told me bonding starts with all of them as soon as they arrive or are bound, and not to stress it. You also are going to spend a lifetime getting to know them so don't be hard on yourself over it. Mine have been very understanding and I'm sure yours would be too.
I could not have said it better myself! some of the best advice I have heard. I am a fan of group bonding. It is an awesome way to listen to everyone and to make sure everyone feels included. But the main thing is not to beat yourself up or to over stress yourself. As long as you try and your Spirits know you care, they will be understanding.
denanna123 wrote:It really is all up to you and what makes you comfortable and happy!
Really well put. I don't see this here, but I have seen negativity on other platforms about people who buy multiple conjures at once. It's silly, everyone has different needs and a different style of spirit keeping. There's no need for negativity and it's nice to see the people on here having a more level headed point of view on this!
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