The senior (and more...assertive) of my incubi, wasn't quite a reverse adoption, but he made sure I got him.

The short version I'll give you is, incubi aren't exclusively het males. If you're interested in them, it may even be because one of them is interested in you, and is trying to make it happen. I speak from experience...and oh mah gawsh, I'm so glad he did. 1lo

I read somewhere that Succubus have both sexes but usually take female form (maybe incubus too, they are different species), if they can shapeshift they can fit your desires, but anyway, they are not only for sex, so you can earn more from that experiences and can help you with your decisions surely...
I have felt embarrased with my ladies (one of them a Succubus ) cause I feel not too man for her, but somehow this topic makes me feel a little better...
I don't like men but I'm attracted to that ... of a girl with that extra member
At least experiencing that on dreams would be great