i actually just started doing some of the things on here with my girls and it has made an amazing improvement on our bond. thank you for posting this!

Slightly odd question, but I feel like it relates with the initial forum topic.

I'm not all that much of a sexual person, not to say I'm asexual by any means, every now and then I'll be in the mood (I guess some people are more sexually active than others). Considering the Succubus is a very sexual creature, would it be difficult to bond without doing these sexual visualisations daily? Would she take offence by this? I've read that other bonding methods would be meditating whilst talking to her, spend time thinking about her and focusing on her presence etc. etc. but this wouldn't be as effective as the methods previously mentioned.

LiveNobody wrote:Slightly odd question, but I feel like it relates with the initial forum topic.

I'm not all that much of a sexual person, not to say I'm asexual by any means, every now and then I'll be in the mood (I guess some people are more sexually active than others). Considering the Succubus is a very sexual creature, would it be difficult to bond without doing these sexual visualisations daily? Would she take offence by this? I've read that other bonding methods would be meditating whilst talking to her, spend time thinking about her and focusing on her presence etc. etc. but this wouldn't be as effective as the methods previously mentioned.

There are plenty of bonding methods that aren't species specific, including offerings, mental conversation, inviting them in on activities, etc...

But I have to ask, why adopt a succubus if you don't want a bond that is at least partially sexual? I mean, they're people and are more than just sex and it is certainly possible but it seems odd to choose hard mode like that, if you understand me. Ubis are an easier spirit to bond with for many people because sexual energy is easy to access and enjoyable for them.

Coervus wrote: There are plenty of bonding methods that aren't species specific, including offerings, mental conversation, inviting them in on activities, etc...

But I have to ask, why adopt a succubus if you don't want a bond that is at least partially sexual? I mean, they're people and are more than just sex and it is certainly possible but it seems odd to choose hard mode like that, if you understand me. Ubis are an easier spirit to bond with for many people because sexual energy is easy to access and enjoyable for them.

I think you slightly misunderstood what I was trying to get at here, or maybe I worded it badly, I posted that last message quite late so sorry if that was my bad I do want to make part, if not most, of the bond with a Succubus via sexual energy (as it's what they drive off the most) either visualising them or hands on. (For the first 30 days though I am going to try to bond with as much sexual energy as possible as well as other bonding methods) Will she take offence to the fact that I wouldn't give her sexual energy on the daily I mean, I pretty much release this energy daily anyway, but sometimes I just won't be 'in the mood' to do stuff like that you know.

Sorry for the confusion, I suppose I best not post on these forums at like 2/3 in the morning

LiveNobody wrote:...

Oh, pshhhhhh, whatever. Almost nobody can keep up that kind of energy daily for years on end. We are only teenagers for a brief while and time WILL reduce those drives.

I would think an Ubi who would be offended by an individual missed day would not get in the business of being a dedicated companion at all.

LiveNobody wrote:Slightly odd question, but I feel like it relates with the initial forum topic.

I'm not all that much of a sexual person, not to say I'm asexual by any means, every now and then I'll be in the mood (I guess some people are more sexually active than others). Considering the Succubus is a very sexual creature, would it be difficult to bond without doing these sexual visualisations daily? Would she take offence by this? I've read that other bonding methods would be meditating whilst talking to her, spend time thinking about her and focusing on her presence etc. etc. but this wouldn't be as effective as the methods previously mentioned.

I don't have a "sexual" relationship with either of my ubis. Was it my intention to when I had them conjured? Sure. But, our relationships have evolved organically in to something far more important. One is like a best friend/older protective sister to me. The other is a comforting presence.

I don't like to stereotype spirits by their nature and behaviors when they were alive. Instead I prefer to think that they are as diverse as we are.

SpyderBite wrote: I don't have a "sexual" relationship with either of my ubis. Was it my intention to when I had them conjured? Sure. But, our relationships have evolved organically in to something far more important. One is like a best friend/older protective sister to me. The other is a comforting presence.

I don't like to stereotype spirits by their nature and behaviors when they were alive. Instead I prefer to think that they are as diverse as we are.

Honestly, as long as my ubi(s) are happy to be around me then I'll be happy nonetheless. No matter how our relationships evolve in the future, whether it be sexual or, like you described, best friend / older protective sister It will be interesting to see how the relationship evolves after the first month of bonding, I'd imagine that the first month of bonding will determine what sort of relationship you and your spirit will have? Speaking of which, how was the first month of bonding for you and your ubis? Was it as intense as you thought it would've been? Where the first few touches you experienced from them as vivid as you'd imagine them to be?