So I've been with my succubus for just over 2 weeks now, trying to be the best Spirit Keeper than I can be for her. Just to list a few things we've been meditating together, I talk to her throughout the day, watch TV together, play video games together, I keep her vessel on me pretty much 24/7, I give her offerings every now and then, sometimes I write songs for her, I tell her how much I appreciate she chose to be bound to me on a daily basis etc. etc. I've tried to be as dedicated as I can to keep her happy, cause if she isn't happy then neither am I.

The first 2 weeks I could feel her touches every now and then (though I'm still trying to figure out how to 'sense' her energy when she is around), during meditation or when I was sleeping and it seemed like I was beginning to develop more of a sense towards these touches. However, fast forward to the present day and I can't seem to feel her touches as often as I did before...

I remember reading on a thread here (I think) that after a week or two they become a little less active and just kind of observe you for awhile before they become fully active again? Can't exactly remember what thread I read it from but I'm pretty sure it was on CH somewhere...

Anyway, I would just like some confirmation (and for some peace of mind) that this is something that has happened to other Spirit Keepers as well and something I shouldn't really worry about? Maybe some people can share their experiences about similar situations like this? I can get kinda paranoid and nervous with this sort of stuff, and considering she is my first Spirit I don't want to mess anything up with her...

Don't stress it. Our energies are always in flux. Sometimes we connect very well with the spiritual and other times, no matter how skilled, we feel blind deaf and dumb. I'm there myself more often than I expect, and then in a day or two, BOOM, someone gets close for a conversation. Unless you were born with innate gifts to see and communicate with spirits, chances are you're just at a lull in your subtle energy connections.

On the flipside your succubus may also be at a lull in her energy ability and could just be "recharging" a bit.

Sometimes any little thing interferes too - stresses that we don't realize (like life, work, family) sometimes cause interference even when we are not changing habits. Just worrying about bonding can also be an invisible block (trying too hard).

I would say just keep on keeping on. It sounds like you're on the right track.

Regholdain wrote:Don't stress it. Our energies are always in flux. Sometimes we connect very well with the spiritual and other times, no matter how skilled, we feel blind deaf and dumb. I'm there myself more often than I expect, and then in a day or two, BOOM, someone gets close for a conversation. Unless you were born with innate gifts to see and communicate with spirits, chances are you're just at a lull in your subtle energy connections.

On the flipside your succubus may also be at a lull in her energy ability and could just be "recharging" a bit.

Sometimes any little thing interferes too - stresses that we don't realize (like life, work, family) sometimes cause interference even when we are not changing habits. Just worrying about bonding can also be an invisible block (trying too hard).

I would say just keep on keeping on. It sounds like you're on the right track.

Thanks very much, didn't really think about her recharging her energy, or our energy just not being very active compared to theirs. Hopefully she returns soon though or our energy balances out again. But yeah thanks for clarifying, tend to over think these things and get worried for no reason

No need to stress out about it. We all go through energy cycles all the time and so this is normal. Some people think an energy cycle change is when something huge happens in their life but this isn't the case. Even if we think we are doing pretty much the same thing every day, our energy cycles will change anyway. Your spirits will do the same thing too. So sometimes there will be a big notice in activity and other times nothing at all can be noticed.

I think the "Dynamic" class that CH bindings sell is meant to help during these shifts, FYI. It doesn't solve anything necessarily, but allows the energy connection created by the binding to ebb and flow as you evolve. I honestly don't know what difference it makes or doesn't make, but that's how I interpret, at least partly, the advantage of the "Dynamic" class bindings.

I might have to add to that, sometimes your ubis have stuff to do sometimes and just leave. If you are worried about it, ask her to tell you when she does so you won't feel like something is wrong. I've been through that feeling too when I first met my bae.

Hypersmash wrote:I might have to add to that, sometimes your ubis have stuff to do sometimes and just leave. If you are worried about it, ask her to tell you when she does so you won't feel like something is wrong. I've been through that feeling too when I first met my bae.

That's a good point. One of my succubae companions just up and left for a few weeks. I have other spirits and telepathy typically works pretty well with them, so I asked them what was up. They pretty much confirmed she had something to take care of and would return soon. LOL I also notice when other companions want focus my sexy companions tend to "back off". There's often a reason.