mystlady wrote: ↑Mon Nov 21, 2022 6:34 pm @Satella

Glad that you’re there to support your spirit friend. Must have been a traumatic experience for her. Hopefully, that person is now banned from your group and never to join again. I feel bad for the other potential spirits whom he will adopt from other conjurers.

If you have a dedicated counseling/rehab (entities) team set up in your group, it might helped your spirit friend to talk to someone. I have set up a dedicated group in my keep, should my family members might be needing an extra help. This morning alone, I talked to my counseling team that I can feel my seasonal depression kicking in and I can use the extra help. Not to mention, I just saw my ex husband with new girlfriend in tow after running into him at Game Stop last Friday night (I was a DV- domestic violence survivor) His presence alone was triggering.
Hope she gets the help (if she feels like talking to someone).

Satella wrote: ↑Mon Nov 21, 2022 4:57 pm Just felt like making this little post after I had to experience a few very disturbing experiences revolving mistreatment, abuse and neglect of beings / spirits which me and my friends helped rescue / rehome this month. One in particular hit incredibly hard, I met someone who I won’t really talk about but online they seemed like a super nice person and was very respectful and eager.

They joined my little group and helped here and there with ritual planning and a few other things including pre-conjured editing / spell checking as mine can get rather long haha. At some point he was ready for his first friend. I decided to meet with his spirit guardians and see if anyone would like to be binded and have a more active relationship with them. Everything seemed great and after a few weeks of training he told me that my group was too intense for him and said he would like to go on his spirit keeping journey alone. I wished him the best and asked him to take care of himself and his sprit family.

Last night I was visited by the spirit I binded to him. She was in a complete mess, crying non stop and hugging me, I could actually feel the tears running down her cheeks and on to my shirt. She told me how he lied and was abusing her, making her do things forcefully, threatening to do (things to themselves ) if they didn’t do things for him. Overall was the most appalling and disgusting thing I heard for a while. I work with abused spirits and beings, but I never expected one that I conjured to go through such things. I was very saddened. She is safe with my friends and me now, and is sitting on my lap hugging me while I do work. Honestly she said she just wants to stay with me and not talk more about the details.

Sorry if this was disturbing for anyone I apologize, but please care, love and respect your family. It’s an incredible responsibility having these wonderful beings and spirits in your keep. Please cherish the time you have with them, spend time with them, and grow together! Thankies