@Neter

Perhaps I wasn’t totally clear, although I don’t think I mentioned caring about controlling anyone? That’s not the point. And I'm not speaking of having been with multiple people in general. I'm very specific about objecification.

The behavior patterns I spoke of all have to do with people who are perpetuating their own toxic abuse they’ve endured, along with their loss of true self esteem or connectedness – usually from depression, and trauma, or simply doing the only thing they know how from peers and parents.

And so, the “celebration” of seeing other people as objects, or like "fast food", is part of a coping mechanism.

Ergo, lost.

However, If I’m toxic for pointing it out, so be it I guess… You don't have to agree, and that's fine.