Good evening all.

So I have a problem. I suspect that an Incubus has attached itself to me and has been treating me poorly. I am unsure if it is truly an Incubus, but, it's actions make me strongly suspect it is one. It has been interacting with me in inappropriate ways, mostly sexual. I can feel it physically touching me and when he gets excited, I can feel him start to masturbate. He continually tries to have sex with me and is always trying to finger me. Like I said... inappropriate. Everywhere I go, whether it be just going out to run errands, be at a doctor's appointment, the grocery store..... I can feel him touching me. It's not limited to just here at home.

I've tried a couple of banishing spells with no success. The last one I tried was mixing Sea Salt with Water in a spray bottle and spraying it around my living space chanting

"By salt’s embrace and water’s flow,
I banish darkness, make it go.
Evil spirits, take your leave,
In saltwater’s tide, you shall not cleave.

As energy shifts and darkness flees,
This space is cleansed, brought to ease.
With love and light, I seal this rite,
In harmony and peace, all’s set right."

This had no affect on him.

I never asked for an Incubus to join me. I never wanted one and never asked anyone to conjure one for me. I did ask a witch to bind a Succubus to a ring that I wear, but not an Incubus. He doesn't respect me or my wishes to leave the house.

I would really like someone to chime in and help me out. I'm very new to all this. This particular entity is wearing me down. I can't sleep at night without him trying to violate me. I'm physically exhausted. Your advice is welcomed.

Respectfully,
Fyr

Fyr wrote: ↑Fri Dec 22, 2023 1:59 am Good evening all.

So I have a problem. I suspect that an Incubus has attached itself to me and has been treating me poorly. I am unsure if it is truly an Incubus, but, it's actions make me strongly suspect it is one. It has been interacting with me in inappropriate ways, mostly sexual. I can feel it physically touching me and when he gets excited, I can feel him start to masturbate. He continually tries to have sex with me and is always trying to finger me. Like I said... inappropriate. Everywhere I go, whether it be just going out to run errands, be at a doctor's appointment, the grocery store..... I can feel him touching me. It's not limited to just here at home.

I've tried a couple of banishing spells with no success. The last one I tried was mixing Sea Salt with Water in a spray bottle and spraying it around my living space chanting

"By salt’s embrace and water’s flow,
I banish darkness, make it go.
Evil spirits, take your leave,
In saltwater’s tide, you shall not cleave.

As energy shifts and darkness flees,
This space is cleansed, brought to ease.
With love and light, I seal this rite,
In harmony and peace, all’s set right."

This had no affect on him.

I never asked for an Incubus to join me. I never wanted one and never asked anyone to conjure one for me. I did ask a witch to bind a Succubus to a ring that I wear, but not an Incubus. He doesn't respect me or my wishes to leave the house.

I would really like someone to chime in and help me out. I'm very new to all this. This particular entity is wearing me down. I can't sleep at night without him trying to violate me. I'm physically exhausted. Your advice is welcomed.

Respectfully,
Fyr

In this instance, I'll assume the role of a devil's advocate, as scenarios like these are relatively common. Consider a new male Keeper who welcomes a sexual spirit, a Succubus, into his life, unaware of the potential changes that might ensue.

No spirit is intruding upon you. Your body is merely reacting, the sudden onset of sexual arousal, the overstimulation of certain chakras, etc., your subconscious mind is convinced that someone is interacting with you sexually. In reality, that's not the case. No entity is exhausting you. The discomfort comes from your own apprehension towards the idea of another male making contact. This cycle is clearly distressing for you.

Assuming that the witch who bound your Succubus is authentic, all these experiences emanate from your subconscious mind post the Succubus's arrival. Therefore, I would advise finding a quiet space to connect with your Succubus, and more importantly, put an end to the negative dialogue in your subconscious mind.

Do you have any protection set up? Whether that be spells, wards, or even companions that are protective. Having this in place may make it to where you feel more comfortable and at ease if this is the result of your body’s reaction to the energy around you/a possible awakening. (It may be worth researching kundalini awakening and seeing if you feel that could be what is going on.) If it’s a being that is bothering you then having protection set up may also help with this issue. Even if you perform a banishment if there is no protection in place it can be fairly easy for the being to return.

I also want to ask if you are able to communicate with your spirits? It’s definitely worth having a talk with your succubus companion about this issue you are dealing with. She may be able to shed some light on what’s going on, especially if this started after her arrival. If you are dealing with processing new energy she may be able to help you through this process. If it is an outside energy she may also be able to help with protection or give you better guidance on what to do.

House rules might also be worth looking into. These can let any spirit and entity companions around you know what you are comfortable with and what you aren’t comfortable with.

I also want to suggest another theory. This is just a theory and I’m not going to say it’s what is happening in this case, but I have read about it happening before. Ubi are shapeshifters and this can include them changing gender. Some people have mentioned their succubus companions acting in a way that they might be perceived as a more masculine presence/an incubus. If this is the case (which I’m not saying it is just throwing it out there as a possibility) you would want to let this being know that not letting you sleep and intruding on you is inappropriate. It may also be worth contacting the seller you got the succubus from if the issues started after that. She may have more advice regarding this situation.

@Tarvos Thank you so much for your reply. My takeaway from that is to quiet my subconscious mind. Yes, I do have apprehension of a male making contact with me. I'm not really into those kinds of things and the things I feel physically make me very uncomfortable and uneasy. A lot to think about though. I appreciate your time

@Hazell Thank you so much for taking the time to reply. Lots of questions so let me respond with some answers in hopes on getting further guidance.

I don't have any protection setup. I don't know how to do that. I'm still very new to this and learning as much as I can as fast as I can absorb it.

I talk openly with my spirit out loud when I am focusing on the alter that I made for her. What we don't have is two-way communication. I don't know how to accomplish that. I'm fairly certain that she can hear me. Sometimes when I ask her to do something like touch my back or arms, something non-sexual, she does it. It puts me at ease knowing at least she can hear me.

What are "House Rules" ?

I'm going to reach out to the seller and see if she has any guidance for me.

Respectfully,
Fyr

Also viewtopic.php?f=436&t=13973&p=139635
https://www.creepyhollows.com/faq/index ... ght=banish

If you have effective protection in place and have banished effectively all unwanted beings & energies, then other processes, such as kundalini effects or mental projection / shadow may well be at work. Or you may be a bit too open psychically to chaotic or negative energy or influences.

Unless we're absolute masters, it's generally best to diagnose something by a process of exclusion, in my opinion. First banish &/or protect. Then introspection. Closing & protecting the aura, and centering & grounding are part of a proactive approach to self protection too.

It may be some comfort to know that, although attachments by malicious beings can happen, it seems that that happens less frequently than the frequency at which people think it's happening.

Even if there is an unbound Incubus there, you can tell them they're not permitted to have access to you any longer. And if you have a specialist protection spirit, you can tell them to block access for the Incubus. Then you need to stop your mind and energy returning the source of the irritation; peeking to see if it's still there.

Fyr wrote: ↑Sat Dec 23, 2023 3:09 am @Hazell Thank you so much for taking the time to reply. Lots of questions so let me respond with some answers in hopes on getting further guidance.

I don't have any protection setup. I don't know how to do that. I'm still very new to this and learning as much as I can as fast as I can absorb it.

I talk openly with my spirit out loud when I am focusing on the alter that I made for her. What we don't have is two-way communication. I don't know how to accomplish that. I'm fairly certain that she can hear me. Sometimes when I ask her to do something like touch my back or arms, something non-sexual, she does it. It puts me at ease knowing at least she can hear me.

What are "House Rules" ?

I'm going to reach out to the seller and see if she has any guidance for me.

Respectfully,
Fyr

I recommend researching house rules on the forum. There are several great topics about them. I see them as rules that let the spirits around us know what is and isn’t appropriate.

I also recommend researching protection on here. I’m actually surprised warding isn’t talked about more often.

I’m going to tell you a simple warding method. Do whatever helps you to relax and focus your mind. Such as focusing on your breathing, playing soft music, or using incense (you don’t have to do this, but it can help to set the mood.) I then want you to imagine your personal energy. It’s fine if you can’t visualize it, just try your best. Now, set the intention that you will be protecting your energy. You can now imagine a white light. Allow the energy of this light to expand and surround your personal energy. Feel confident that this energy is there protecting you. Once this is done you can also repeat this process and use this light to surround and protect your home.

Hazell wrote: ↑Sat Dec 23, 2023 5:29 pm ... You can now imagine a white light. Allow the energy of this light to expand and surround your personal energy. Feel confident that this energy is there protecting you. Once this is done you can also repeat this process and use this light to surround and protect your home.

I would also like to add my voice in support of this technique. It is a great method of protection (and considering that it is practiced by so many, that strengthens it. It is one of the strongest shields that a neophyte can use.)

Another method that you could do, though it does require some measure of capability in moving energy, is to create paper talismans and charge them with the intention of protection (whichever method you feel resonates the strongest with you. You can ask any spiritual companions to assist in something like this.) Then you place them up around the walls of your home with the visualization that their energy will spread and cover the walls with an impenetrable barrier that only those you give permission to may cross.

When making them, however, I would strongly suggest using a freshly-cleansed work-space, and ideally placing them up on the walls after a good and thorough house cleansing. Just to make sure no errant energies are stuck inside your wards.

As an aside, just...for the record, don't automatically assume that any masculine-feeling spirit that gets more than a little too forward, must ipso facto be an incubus.

There are other types of spirits out there, that can occasionally get a little frisky with a human that's learning to connect with the spiritual realm.

But even beyond that, don't reject out of hand, the idea of having an incubus around. When I was going through my own calling, it was like, wait, hold on, I've got so many connections to Archangel Raphael, me keeping an incubus will turn into a remake of "Sleeping With the Enemy," right?

Well, no...and both sides have very patiently explained the why of that to me since.

But if there really IS an incubus that's interested in you, you might want to consider respectfully hearing him out. Sometimes, a simple open dialogue can be more effective (and more beneficial for both sides) than just trying to find the most powerful ward.

Consider it.

And before you say "that's not who I am," well...before keeping an incubus, I was once an acolyte at the chapel on an Army base, sang in two different choirs in high school, was an active member of my church youth group (I even went on mission trips), and had been consciously working with angels for DECADES.

Keeping an incubus, does not make you a bad person.