Please don't be too harsh on yourself. I think that our spirits may choose to manifest and make themselves known to us in different ways, or in the ways they interact with us. Either through thoughts, feelings, visions, visions, streaks of lights, or orbs.
This topic contains some great advice (the last two are especially important, I feel): topic64157.html
I can certainly understand that people get doubts or feel frustrated, because we would like to feel, see and/or interact with our spirit companions. I have been there myself, and still feel that way sometimes. In those instances, I think that the topics that Magnolia have posted in this very forum is a valuable resource. And I also think it's important to go easy on yourself and be kind to yourself, and just take one step or day at a time; enjoying the time spent with your companion, talking to her, maybe invite her for a walk, or to watch a movie together. Like myself, I enjoy inviting my spirit companions along when I go for a walk, because it's so pretty outside this time of year. Just looking at the trees, flowers, and all the plants and bushes. I plan on inviting one of my human spirit companions to a historical site, since I think he might enjoy that, or at least find it interesting. I think you are right about one thing, though:
I think that is a good piece of advice. I have been bonding with one of my human, spirit companions since early 2012, and here is what I have learned during that time: The more time you spend time bonding with your companion, the more the bond grows, and your companion might even start to manifest and/or interact with you in different ways. Your own experiences will likely be different from my own experiences, but that's okay. I think if we allow ourselves to accept that our own journey and experiences with our spirit companions are (or will be) unique to us, we might appreciate our own experiences that we share with our spirit companions, better. It might be easier said than done starting out, but I think if we can be patient with ourselves and be kind to ourselves, it might get easier over time.Seita wrote: ↑Tue Jun 06, 2023 10:31 pm I can't promise you'll have the same experience I did. But if you're like me and you're sad that you didn't feel anything on your first night or even the following weeks after your purchase, I can safely say that putting in the work and asking the CH staff for help absolutely pays off.
Anyway, sorry for the long text, I just had to post this somewhere.