NoctemAeternus wrote:?
I don't think anyone was hating on you...that is your perception. What is happening is, people are disagreeing with you (and generally trying to be fair about it).
If one did not invest hate into their message, then you've simply taken it the wrong way.
You've got a distorted idea of how this thread has progressed; many responses have been constructive.
But if that's how it's going to be, then alright.
Hating does not have to be only one form of hate.
It can be many things.
It also includes people being very subtle as to their actual anger at what I have said. No need for them to word it outright as blatant, and in some cases no need to even say it subtly directly at me. Anyway, I think you missed quite a few insults at me. Perhaps you should read again? That is what people are missing. I think it is time to be more aware if you really think that this is a kind discussion and kind actions and words directed at me. Just put yourself in my shoes. Now, think about all those things directed at yourself. Would you really say I have it distorted? Would you be happy at people, think the discussion is going just fine as it is? Think nothing is even a just bit harsh directed towards yourself? Something tells me no one would be happy. It's just natural. Easy if it isn't directed at yourself.
As I said, some people have disagreed. Not a problem here. I understand them, and their thoughts. Never actually said I didn't. It's the other type of posts I am talking about. And anyway, would a bit of understanding others be too much trouble for people? Really? Is it that hard to do? I understand them. So if I can do it, they can too.
I really hope this is my last post. I just wish people would let this thread die if they hate my proposal so much. Stop replying to me if you are not even going to try to understand what I am saying. It was just a suggestion to help others, as like i have to say again, it isn't just me. So stop saying it is already. I have proof. Which apparently, no one cares for it if they see it differently. Even if it is a valid point of view.
That is all I wanted. To people to see things that others do as well, that they may not perceive to be. What says your opinion is right anyway? Both should be taken in to consideration. NOT just one side. Like what is happening.
I still don't think you can dispute what happened here. Or ignore it. As this is also proof as to what I was saying. People not liking others opinions so they are mean about it and think that the other is wrong. Cannot avoid this. It's all here.
This thread starts with something so close to bullying that if you did it where I work, you would be counselled. And it is still coming from your posts 6 pages later. And now you're threatening that if we don't stop the behaviour that in fact you are actually doing; you will leave again.
Honestly, is this fair to you? Or is is a vile twist of what I was saying, and then insulting me? Am I really that crazy to think this way anymore? But of course, still, it's just all in my head. And that is only the start. Just imagine if this was directed at you. I can't believe you are ignoring all this and thinking it is OK. I have
NEVER said anything like that to anyone in my life. Let alone on here. Do NOT say that is acceptable, along with the may other things directed towards me. because you wouldn't think it was acceptable either if it was directed towards yourself.
again, just please let this thread die if you all continue like this. It's something that is beyond me as to why people are OK with stuff like this happening. Anyone, please do not insult me any further, you have made your point. And do not say that everything that was said to me is all fine. It is also an insult to me. I would never do that to anyone, what was said, ever. It is disgusting. It isn't fair. And I am appalled at what was said towards me. But I continue to try to be nice towards them. Because I didn't mean to insult anyone. I do not want to argue, I do not want to hate. I do not want this type of behavior directed towards me any more. So just leave it. Leave this thread because it is just a load of negativity now.
Lol, psychic vampire attack. If this was, then what was all those insults directed towards me? I am NOT like that. And NEVER want to be. I would never want to harm anyone. Again, you have it all wrong. And again, you try to say something that isn't true directed towards me. But go on believing it if you want to. I like vampires.