I couldn't help but notice your post's title, and stop upon. I would not say that it is neither wrong or right, because what are the standards? You might have a different point of view with me.
I understand you wish somebody's death. You could get angry at times. I have felt that way, when somebody almost brought me death. I wanted a payback. And even these days I grind my teeth.
But think of it this way. Is it really needed? Everything happens for a reason, I believe. Because the incident happened for me, I have learned many lessons. I learned about dignity, social security, psychology, behaviors, environment and egos. It comes to you in many ways. I dearly hope you take advantages of whatever or whomever is bothering you. Think about it, it's going to shape who you are going to be. And I find that very exciting. Whatever happens, you'll learn something from it.
Of course that's not saying you should go out there and do whatever you want, believing that you'll learn something from it.
But honestly, there is too much to enjoy out there in the world, than to dwell upon. Let it go. Let it not hold you, for that is even worse.
I believe you would not want something for your enemy, right? The more you dwell upon this, the more your achieving your enemy's dream. That was more of a point of view from revenge, but whatever works.
Karma, the balance.... You see, I didn't use to believe in Karma. I thought it was BS. But once you study energy, cosmic balance and spirituality, you will start to understand. Actually you don't even have to study. It's not like, if you spend 10 dollars for somebody, your going to get 30 dollars. It could either be you learn something from it (Which I think is the most important thing) , or you could simply get joy and happiness from it. Well it's not a Simple thing, but my point is that it would come in many different forms.
Because your enemy made you feel this way, karma is upon him, if that makes you feel better. There is no need for you to wish extra harm on him. You never know in what way your enemy would be effected by Karma, Like I mentioned above. He might not necessarily get hurt. But his life might get screwed by how his personality is forming.
Those were just examples to make you realize the things that are going on beyond what you might think, but really, you shouldn't need to think about those to feel better. The more you desire negativity, your going to get surrounded by the negative energy. And you yourself will get affected...
I hope this was any help.. I would love to chat privately if you wish.
-with care, Cwamoon
I want to be your friend!
Oh.. I'll wait.