I was told the bedroom is meant for you and your human lover only. Up until then, I had my vessels in our bedroom but I took them out upon her advice.

Thoughts?

Mm? Upon whose advice?

It might also depend on the conjurer and the spirit/entity.
But then, if the companions are not allowed in the bedroom, when something slip inside, they can't do anything, no?
Or how about those who only have bedroom as private space, e.g. living in dorm, parents' house, etc?

darkwing wrote:Mm? Upon whose advice?

It might also depend on the conjurer and the spirit/entity.
But then, if the companions are not allowed in the bedroom, when something slip inside, they can't do anything, no?
Or how about those who only have bedroom as private space, e.g. living in dorm, parents' house, etc?

I hear you, DarkWing. She is a psychic in my town that follows Feng Shui closely.

I am considering moving them back in. It is likely a personal choice. 1ey

definitely depends on you and your lifestyle. If you think your bedroom is only for you and your physivcal lover- don't put the vessels there. If you like spirit-pyjama partys, put the vessels in your bedroom :)
I sometimes sleep with the vessels on (mostly necklaces) and when they disturb my selep, I put them off and keep them under my pillow or on my nightstand.

I believe that our spirits are aware of what we as humuns need in these parts of our lives regarding privacy and time alone with our significant others.

Not comparing spirits to kids, just the situation, my kids only come in the room when given permission. If we tell them to get out than they respect that and do until given permission to come back in.

I keep my charging box with all my vessels on the bookshelf/altar near by bed, it's about 4 feet from me as I sleep. It's a personal choice, I just like to have them all near me. I do wear some of the vessels to bed, particularly my earrings which I never remove and a family heirloom bracelet that I don't take off unless I'm showering. I have several sexual spirits that join in with my fiance and I but they would back off if I asked. So I think it's a personal choice whether you keep the vessels in your room or not.

If you do not want your spirits to come in your room, even if you take the vessels in with you, I would think adding a house rule about it would be a good step to take, like "You are allowed in my room only if invited (or between the hours of 9am-9pm etc)". Do what you feel is right for YOU. Just my opinion

Thank you for your thoughts, everyone. They are helping me find the solution for our family.

Side note, the CH ones have all been bound to my spirit. Doesn't that mean they are always with me regardless? (Unless I ask them to leave of course.)

I personally keep most of my vessels in a cupboard next to my bed.