Mine as example, won't always do so. I need sometimes better rest for her to do. And sometimes she just doesn't have to share something or so, so if she doesn't have a good reason herself (or maybe not be in the mood I guess too), she just doesn't.
Also, it takes trust, also to appear in dreams. She may be not ready yet for that.
I messed up tonight, trying to get mine into things she didn't wanted in a lucid dream and kept saying "no" until she left annoyed and sad...
![Sad :(](https://www.creepyhollows.com/phpBB3/images/smilies/sad.png)