I just got my Incubus a few days ago, and have only noticed the smallest of manifestations(tingling/touch) from him, so we definitely haven't done anything intimate. However, my libido has dropped a ton since he arrived. Normally it's always been very high up until around the exact time/day I started the bonding process.

I suppose the change is... alright, but everything in their description says they usually have the opposite effect so I'm curious if anyone else has experienced this? Could it be because of him? Or is it maybe a temporary side effect from the binding being to spirit?

I would say it is most likely the acclimatization of your energy and his energy , it is temporary but for awhile you can have some effects.

It can also be another thing.