Counting down the days until my bind is done, I would like my succubus to be more energetic than not and everyone seems to be different. How do i communicate this when she arrives, simple telepathy or do i need to do extra steps to make it clear exactly what im looking for

You can talk to your spirit as you would another person while you work on your abilities to communicate other ways.

Yes, invite her into your life where ever you go. Don't talk to her out loud though, or people around you will think your nuts.

What helped my relationships the most is to simply lie down and relax, and share your thoughts with her. Invite her to share that time with you. Try to acknowledge anything you feel during this time in the beginning, tingling energy, movement of air, and let her know what you feel. Succubi love affectionate talk. The more you speak from the heart to her, the more she'll love it.