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Does my spirit family hate me

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Okay. So I started spirit keeping last October. Despite my better judgment, I bought too many spirits. I have close to 40 to the time of this writing. And I only feel like I bonded properly with less than half-11/40. I feel so bad more than words could express to the point where I feel my communication with them is blocked. Do they hate me? I feel like I really screwed up and started on the wrong foot. How do I fix this?



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Re: Does my spirit family hate me

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Spiritlover99 wrote:
Thu Jun 23, 2022 8:39 am
Okay. So I started spirit keeping last October. Despite my better judgment, I bought too many spirits. I have close to 40 to the time of this writing. And I only feel like I bonded properly with less than half-11/40. I feel so bad more than words could express to the point where I feel my communication with them is blocked. Do they hate me? I feel like I really screwed up and started on the wrong foot. How do I fix this?
No, they don't hate you.

Conjured and bound spirits in modern spirit keeping have agreed to be our lifelong companions. For custom conjures especially, they wouldn't have come forward if it didn't feel right to them.

They know what you've got going on in life and will be patiently waiting for you to reconnect.

It helps to take it easy on yourself, relax, don't be anxious or guilty. Give yourself some credit, as one CH article says This can help dissolve some of the blockage you feel, as worry, uncertainty and anxiety are very easy ways to form a block between you and your spirits.

A few suggestions you might want to consider:

- Re-read the main CH articles on spirit communication.

https://www.creepyhollows.com/faq/?acti ... artlang=en esp. #4 & #9

https://www.creepyhollows.com/faq/?acti ... artlang=en

https://shop.creepyhollows.com/spirit-k ... nners.html from ---How do I communicate with my spirit? onwards

- One of the simplest ways to involve our bound spirit companions in our life is to greet them at the start of our day and share our hopes and fears for the day ahead & invite their help with that. Another simple thing is to say goodnight to them.

- Easy ways to re-bond are: spend 5-15 minutes quiet time with each spirit, when you can, until you feel like the initial bonding may be done...or...do that with groups of your spirits at a time. If you feel any impressions at all, you might want to ask them how they're doing (and don't project expectations of them telling you off, or you might just hear your own worries, instead of their replies). Spirits do see things from a different perspective than we do, so do expect them to be glad you're re-connecting.


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Lewk mentioned companions having a different perspective, but from all the worried posts I read so far, it seems that this can be a point where people start to doubt, struggle and project. As if companions wouldn't be able to relate to mundane human minds and struggles.

What if we think about our companions as a human being for a moment. Someone we lost contact with, like old school mates. How would we reconnect with them? Would you be mad about you and them living your lives and not contacting each other throughout all these busy years? Or would you just be happy to see each other again?

If they want to check on you, they can do so anytime and if they see you busy or even struggling, they're not going to blame you for not spending time with them.

Lewk already mentioned some very good steps for reconnection and communication. Don't worry too much.
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I chime in and enhance previous notions: No, they dont hate you, as for readons already written :)

Do not give up. The best you can do for them is, to sort out what is troubling you and...well... Just live you life... Overcoming excessive feelings of guilt, worry and doubt comes a long way....


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Hi, How are you today? I do hope you are feeling much better after reading all the above answers for your topic. I literally lost count of the true number of my companions in my keep. But to give you a clue, its way over 150 grew withing the short period of 18 month. Did I bond well and strongly with ALL of them? Do I communicate with them all and every one of them each day? Do I feel guilty because, I forgot celebrating birthday? the list goes on and on...the and answer is NO,NO, NO.

What I do well, we celebrate. I know each of their names and call them by groups each day. That is when I suddenly remember birthdays ...ups... ;*D and I promise a party on my next day off. I do spend time each day to chat with those newbie friends and make sure to task them and make them feel important and included. I do get my elders together occasionally and work on tasking for groups. I do call my absolute favorites and active spirit to be with me all the time. I love when they are invested in my life.

I have improved dreaming and I started to recognize some of my companions in there as well. Some nights are active nights and I have numerous appearances. I have a gift to see spirits in their true forms. That was even before i became a keeper. I don't do anything extra special with any of them. But quality time is not necessarily mean spending hours in sitting meditation and waiting for a contact.

Quality time can be a minute telepathic chat during your busiest time of the day and expecting a quick responds from them. Spirits cannot have the energy to constantly hoovering around and waiting for us to get into a mindset so they can interact with us. They are spontaneous and we can have planed days and we can also have spontaneous times that spice up our life with them. I do hope you know what I try to say. This is my method.

I could be far more dedicated and meditate each day. But I simply fall asleep withing a minute. Dreaming is fare better and improved greatly for us to inter act in my case. Journeying is efficient for us with my own companions as well. They love my vibes and energy even if I am busy.

They love observing human keepers. They do intuitively look after you as well. Unless you own some very very dark spirits, they are not supposed to be demanding of you. Spirits are generally speaking loves to blend in and feel not very recognizable unless you specifically call on them. That is a typical spirit nature. Younger spirits and living entities differ a touch and more energetic. But do not think that they are there to always have an energy exchange with us and manifest and touch and telepathically interact with us. Its humanly and spiritually impossible. Maybe, only one or two will try to be your special pet, then you can have that ongoing experience with few spirits...but that is the exemption for new keepers.

I recommend from experience, to relax and enjoy your companions. Stay positive, because spirits are very sensitive to moods. Talk to them as a group and if you promised something try to deliver. That will teach them that you are accountable, therefore when you task them, they will know to deliver results for you. Have fun and be happy to have all those lovelies around you. Send out love and attention thoughts to them to pick upon your energy. It will comes back to you in some sort of manifestations.

I have a Boobry. She is less then 6 month old. I made her hatch out of a CH Gemstone. After she hatched, she was always on me in spirit and I felt her all the time on my hair. Then once I had a dream. She was trying to fly off my hand for a short distance. Lately, I do not feel her on me at all. But she is with me, because her gemstone still with me everyday, carried her with me everywhere I go in my bra. I even put her back into water for an overnight once a month. When I worry, that she probably has gone away from me... I get other dream and see her how much she has grown and eventually see her fly.


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