Djinns Aren't Your Slave.
Posted: Fri Jan 23, 2009 8:31 pm
One thing I want to point out is that you shouldn't think that djinns are your slaves and that you can control them 100%.
There is no such thing as something for nothing.
Some Guidelines.
1) Djinns are a servant NOT slave. Likewise, you should be grateful for what they do for you and give them thanks and rewards. Be happy for what they do for you and they WILL show you respect.
2) Don't expect to treat them like crap, not pay attention, give them nothing and just order them around. Example: When you have a maid in the house, do you think they will take pleasure in cleaning your home if you disrespect them, yell, scream? No! Samething with djinns and spirits.
3) Get to understand your djinn well. Ask them questions and listen to them. I know they are your servant BUT ask them if anything offends them or if they don't like something you did. This will make them more happy with you as their master.
4) Nobody likes to be bossed around. But everybody likes to make deals and pacts. In other words, do not expect "freebies" all the time. Give your djinn some respect in return and smile at them. Be strict by all means but show them that you also care about them. But again, at the sametime, show the djinn that you are a STRONG LEADER and you will not allow them to disrespect you.
5) Make rules and be clear. But also have consequences for breaking them. They will take you more seriously.
6) Make sure they are happy to be with YOU. Don't force them to be with you.
The point I am trying to come across is that, I have read online that many people try to "control", "force" or "take advantage" of a djinn. Which by the way, many times the djinn will brainwash you before you ever control it or kill you.
This type of attitude and intent will NEVER allow you to bond with a djinn.
To become a TRUE LEADER, one must respect, lay down rules, GIVE IN RETURN and ask for others of their needs.
You can never control someone and djinns are NO different. They have a life, mind and choice of their own. They aren't some type of robot with no feelings.
And they sure as hell won't take crap from you, If you think you can use it like some type of slave.
Which is why many times when people summon a djinn, they end up getting hurt. Why? Their intent was to use the djinn and give nothing. Djinns don't like being controlled. They may not say it to your face but believe me, they don't appreciate being told what to do with nothing given back.
The type of attitude and intent one should be after is one which is kind yet firm, persuasive, assertive yet considerate and fair. They will respect you automatically because you are showing them that they aren't just some type of toy but they are a creature with their own thinking as well.
This is the type of control that you should be after. The something for nothing type of control is one which leads to a karmic backfire and it will come with a price larger no matter what.
Conclusion? Treat your spirits with respect. But remember if they disrespect you, do not take crap from them. This will show them that all though you are nice, you will not put up with them trying to bully you and you aren't afraid to show your assertive side. They will automatically realize you aren't some dumby and any sort of "tricks" are completely inapplicable under your authority. This way it's WIN-WIN and never will a djinn challenge you or try to hurt you because in their heart they WILL remember how fair. assertive and good you were with them. That's how loyalty is gained and they will protect you and be happy to carry out your tasks even though you may offer nothing sometimes because they will know that you aren't just attempting to put them into a prison and in-slave them.
There is no such thing as something for nothing.
Some Guidelines.
1) Djinns are a servant NOT slave. Likewise, you should be grateful for what they do for you and give them thanks and rewards. Be happy for what they do for you and they WILL show you respect.
2) Don't expect to treat them like crap, not pay attention, give them nothing and just order them around. Example: When you have a maid in the house, do you think they will take pleasure in cleaning your home if you disrespect them, yell, scream? No! Samething with djinns and spirits.
3) Get to understand your djinn well. Ask them questions and listen to them. I know they are your servant BUT ask them if anything offends them or if they don't like something you did. This will make them more happy with you as their master.
4) Nobody likes to be bossed around. But everybody likes to make deals and pacts. In other words, do not expect "freebies" all the time. Give your djinn some respect in return and smile at them. Be strict by all means but show them that you also care about them. But again, at the sametime, show the djinn that you are a STRONG LEADER and you will not allow them to disrespect you.
5) Make rules and be clear. But also have consequences for breaking them. They will take you more seriously.
6) Make sure they are happy to be with YOU. Don't force them to be with you.
The point I am trying to come across is that, I have read online that many people try to "control", "force" or "take advantage" of a djinn. Which by the way, many times the djinn will brainwash you before you ever control it or kill you.
This type of attitude and intent will NEVER allow you to bond with a djinn.
To become a TRUE LEADER, one must respect, lay down rules, GIVE IN RETURN and ask for others of their needs.
You can never control someone and djinns are NO different. They have a life, mind and choice of their own. They aren't some type of robot with no feelings.
And they sure as hell won't take crap from you, If you think you can use it like some type of slave.
Which is why many times when people summon a djinn, they end up getting hurt. Why? Their intent was to use the djinn and give nothing. Djinns don't like being controlled. They may not say it to your face but believe me, they don't appreciate being told what to do with nothing given back.
The type of attitude and intent one should be after is one which is kind yet firm, persuasive, assertive yet considerate and fair. They will respect you automatically because you are showing them that they aren't just some type of toy but they are a creature with their own thinking as well.
This is the type of control that you should be after. The something for nothing type of control is one which leads to a karmic backfire and it will come with a price larger no matter what.
Conclusion? Treat your spirits with respect. But remember if they disrespect you, do not take crap from them. This will show them that all though you are nice, you will not put up with them trying to bully you and you aren't afraid to show your assertive side. They will automatically realize you aren't some dumby and any sort of "tricks" are completely inapplicable under your authority. This way it's WIN-WIN and never will a djinn challenge you or try to hurt you because in their heart they WILL remember how fair. assertive and good you were with them. That's how loyalty is gained and they will protect you and be happy to carry out your tasks even though you may offer nothing sometimes because they will know that you aren't just attempting to put them into a prison and in-slave them.
mcmsinger, I totally agree; just think about the resentment that would develop if someone bossed you around and disrespected you all of the time. I used to work for this guy who was a real DICK, he treated everyone like they were less than just because of his position of power, needless to say, he was not well liked at all. So I can image the way a being that has supernatural power would handle mistreatment :scared:
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