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:dancing: i was talking to my sra silver and doing EVERYTHING to bond with him and thinking i would never until i talked to fialove and she gave me great advice so i got focused and i burned his candle and listened to meditating music for instruments only with is vessal on my forehead and BAM!! he was flying around me happy as can be :thumbup: i did it with all of my spirits and they all LOVED it and im definitely going to be doing it more :sly: ever since m has been very lively i love it and very glad i took the time to do it and would recommend it for anyone who hasn't :thumbup: thank you all for the great advice it has helped me a lot and am very thankful :

Great to hear! :thumbup:

SOUNDS LIKE A GREAT WAY TO BREAK THE BONDING ICE :thumbup: NEXT TIME IT PROBABLY WON'T BE SO DIFFICULT

WTG!! Sounds like it's gonna be a fun time around there! LOL

Wooooo, congrats!!!

Congrats, white shadow! That's wonderful and thanks for the new idea.

Now I'm sitting at my desk at work with the over head lights off; illuminated by the soft glow of the computer screen with a graphic design flickering candle on it and a spirit stone on my forehead. I can only imagine what the boss would think if she walked in. Guess I should wait until I get home but I figured today would be a good "take your dragon to work" day so.... no time like the present for quality bonding.

phoneixfire wrote:Congrats, white shadow! That's wonderful and thanks for the new idea.

Now I'm sitting at my desk at work with the over head lights off; illuminated by the soft glow of the computer screen with a graphic design flickering candle on it and a spirit stone on my forehead. I can only imagine what the boss would think if she walked in. Guess I should wait until I get home but I figured today would be a good "take your dragon to work" day so.... no time like the present for quality bonding.

ha ha : :funnypost:

Congrats :thumbup: :thumbup: :grouphug: :grouphug:

I thought EVERY day was bring your dragon to work day :dragons:: :dragons::

phoneixfire wrote:Congrats, white shadow! That's wonderful and thanks for the new idea.

Now I'm sitting at my desk at work with the over head lights off; illuminated by the soft glow of the computer screen with a graphic design flickering candle on it and a spirit stone on my forehead. I can only imagine what the boss would think if she walked in. Guess I should wait until I get home but I figured today would be a good "take your dragon to work" day so.... no time like the present for quality bonding.

This is actually something I have been wondering about! Rather than lighting an actual candle would it likely work to just use the image of a lighted candle for bonding rituals? I know it won't work if you're trying to see your spirits in the smoke and that sort of thing and I realize an actual lit candle is likely to cause a mood that is appropriate for bonding but for those of us who can't really have an open flame in areas we'd like to bond in would that be an acceptable substitute?