Toxic Environment Resources
Posted: Sat Apr 14, 2012 1:32 am
At some point most of us will be exposed to a toxic environment. I've seen multiple posts attempting to address this issue, so I've decided to try addressing it all at once, instead of hijacking someone elses thread.
Often this exposure happens at home, school, or work; places that can be difficult to escape or avoid under normal circumstances.
While it's possible for this toxicity to be communal, it's often the focus of a single person or small group making things miserable for everybody else. This means that the Number One solution is to GET AWAY. (this can be particularly challenging if you are a minor, as there is very little you might feel capable of doing to change your situation. hang in there, I'm comin back for you guys.)
#1 Remove yourself from the toxic situation. Methods to do this are not limited to but include; get a different job, kick the problem out of your home, leave the toxic person, stop being friends, cut off the relationship.
The sad truth is, that you're not going to be able to change the source of Toxicity in most cases, ESPECIALLY if the source is a particular person. Your best bet is to get away. Be strong, make proactive choices, and get the heck out.
#2 Get some help to figure out how you ended up in the situation and how you can best break the patterns and not go back. This is especially important if the Toxic source was a family member, partner, or authority figure.
But Maythen, you might be wailing... I just Can't do anything to change my situation.
Is it work? Get a different job. It might take time and effort you think you don't have... suck it up. The longer you stay the worse it will get.
Is it your partner? Get rid of your partner. If that means making plans and financial trickery to keep you and your dependents safe, do what you must. Abuse is NEVER tolerable and always escalates.
Family member? Can be even more difficult that a partner, but still doable. Cut them off. Tell them why if it suits you. If that person shows up just leave, make it clear to other family members you feel might be affected. In the case of minor family (your evil nephew Fred that you caught torturing a baby bunny when he was 5 perhaps) that may mean cutting out the parents.
In the case of a minor/dependant child, your exposure levels are not always under your control. If the situation is abusive please speak to a trusted adult and seek help. Even if you don't feel this qualifies as abuse, I still urge you to speak with a trusted adult. If there is no trustworthy adult I recommend you seek outside assistance.
Covenant house is a teen oriented hotline 24/7 1-800-999-9999. The Trevor Lifeline is oriented towards those struggling with LGTB issues 1-866-488-7386. You can also look in your local phone book for crisis hotlines available in your area. 1-800-SUICIDE is a crisis line you can call.
But let's say none of the above can be applied in your situation. What you really want to know is how to apply spells or spirits to the situation, right?
#1 Energy Morphing Binding.
Works exactly as described, transforming any excess energy (personal or ambient) into a different form of energy. Transform Negative Energy to Positive Energy, Anger to Peace, Anxiety to Tranquility, Stress to Healing Light. The possibilities are only limited to your own abilities.
#2 Lazy Orb
This piece has multiple capabilities that are going to help you here. Chiefly cleansing energies, earth, protection, chakra and aura cleanse/balance, Deflection/Dissolution/Repel/Block.
It's one of those pieces that requires a considerable investment, but is going to be your go-to piece for a lifetime of exploration.
#3 Emotional Resilience
Provides a lovely minty shield between you and the unpleasant emotion. The most fantastic aspect (IMHO) is that it functions whether the source is external or internal. While it doesn't stop the unpleasant emotion, it does give you a wonderful dethatched position from which to observe it.
Be aware, in my experience it needs to be removed periodically or it interferes with a normal sleep cycle. But your experience may differ.
When it comes to spirits, I'm a less is more girl, but here are a few that seem uniquely suited to those exposed to toxic environments.
#1 Volkh
Fantastic at cleansing and protection. Easy to bond with, requires little from their Keeper. They do their job and do it well with a minimum of fuss. In my experience best results are obtained from constant wear, skin contact if possible.
#2 Angel (pick the type best suited to your needs)
When it comes to comfort, protection, and healing then you can't go wrong with an angel. They also offer a soothing companionship and connection to Universal Love. In my experience you do not need to be a Christian to enjoy their company, so don't let religious differences get in your way.
#3 Dragon (stay on the WhiteArts end of the personality spectrum)
Each person has their own preference here, but I've heard very positive results from those Keeping White, Gold, Silver, and Quartz dragons. For those suffering a sense of loneliness and isolation dragons can offer a special solace in their presence.
Often this exposure happens at home, school, or work; places that can be difficult to escape or avoid under normal circumstances.
While it's possible for this toxicity to be communal, it's often the focus of a single person or small group making things miserable for everybody else. This means that the Number One solution is to GET AWAY. (this can be particularly challenging if you are a minor, as there is very little you might feel capable of doing to change your situation. hang in there, I'm comin back for you guys.)
#1 Remove yourself from the toxic situation. Methods to do this are not limited to but include; get a different job, kick the problem out of your home, leave the toxic person, stop being friends, cut off the relationship.
The sad truth is, that you're not going to be able to change the source of Toxicity in most cases, ESPECIALLY if the source is a particular person. Your best bet is to get away. Be strong, make proactive choices, and get the heck out.
#2 Get some help to figure out how you ended up in the situation and how you can best break the patterns and not go back. This is especially important if the Toxic source was a family member, partner, or authority figure.
But Maythen, you might be wailing... I just Can't do anything to change my situation.
Is it work? Get a different job. It might take time and effort you think you don't have... suck it up. The longer you stay the worse it will get.
Is it your partner? Get rid of your partner. If that means making plans and financial trickery to keep you and your dependents safe, do what you must. Abuse is NEVER tolerable and always escalates.
Family member? Can be even more difficult that a partner, but still doable. Cut them off. Tell them why if it suits you. If that person shows up just leave, make it clear to other family members you feel might be affected. In the case of minor family (your evil nephew Fred that you caught torturing a baby bunny when he was 5 perhaps) that may mean cutting out the parents.
In the case of a minor/dependant child, your exposure levels are not always under your control. If the situation is abusive please speak to a trusted adult and seek help. Even if you don't feel this qualifies as abuse, I still urge you to speak with a trusted adult. If there is no trustworthy adult I recommend you seek outside assistance.
Covenant house is a teen oriented hotline 24/7 1-800-999-9999. The Trevor Lifeline is oriented towards those struggling with LGTB issues 1-866-488-7386. You can also look in your local phone book for crisis hotlines available in your area. 1-800-SUICIDE is a crisis line you can call.
But let's say none of the above can be applied in your situation. What you really want to know is how to apply spells or spirits to the situation, right?
#1 Energy Morphing Binding.
Works exactly as described, transforming any excess energy (personal or ambient) into a different form of energy. Transform Negative Energy to Positive Energy, Anger to Peace, Anxiety to Tranquility, Stress to Healing Light. The possibilities are only limited to your own abilities.
#2 Lazy Orb
This piece has multiple capabilities that are going to help you here. Chiefly cleansing energies, earth, protection, chakra and aura cleanse/balance, Deflection/Dissolution/Repel/Block.
It's one of those pieces that requires a considerable investment, but is going to be your go-to piece for a lifetime of exploration.
#3 Emotional Resilience
Provides a lovely minty shield between you and the unpleasant emotion. The most fantastic aspect (IMHO) is that it functions whether the source is external or internal. While it doesn't stop the unpleasant emotion, it does give you a wonderful dethatched position from which to observe it.
Be aware, in my experience it needs to be removed periodically or it interferes with a normal sleep cycle. But your experience may differ.
When it comes to spirits, I'm a less is more girl, but here are a few that seem uniquely suited to those exposed to toxic environments.
#1 Volkh
Fantastic at cleansing and protection. Easy to bond with, requires little from their Keeper. They do their job and do it well with a minimum of fuss. In my experience best results are obtained from constant wear, skin contact if possible.
#2 Angel (pick the type best suited to your needs)
When it comes to comfort, protection, and healing then you can't go wrong with an angel. They also offer a soothing companionship and connection to Universal Love. In my experience you do not need to be a Christian to enjoy their company, so don't let religious differences get in your way.
#3 Dragon (stay on the WhiteArts end of the personality spectrum)
Each person has their own preference here, but I've heard very positive results from those Keeping White, Gold, Silver, and Quartz dragons. For those suffering a sense of loneliness and isolation dragons can offer a special solace in their presence.