Need some tips for better human spirit bonding please
Posted: Sat Mar 17, 2012 10:11 pm
Hello guys, this will be my first 'serious' post on the CH forum. I did do the search through threads each time I felt like posting a question but there is just something I cannot seem to find on the forum by myself.
I have got only one my very first spirit so far. He is a human spirit (custom). I started bonding with him for 5 days ago and I am patient and am in belief that I am doing things correctly and keep a diary where I write down anything unusual etc, my thoughts, feelings, etc.
Well, i am deaf/blind in terms of paranormal. I may be intuitive very often but I definitely am blocked from seeing spirits or hearing them. I even attempted to see auras starting with my own but I just do not seem to do it correctly, i guess. Maybe I did see my own aura once but I simply don't see more than that.
I had OBEs (and remembered the whole experience) only twice in my entire life and had only one lucid dream that I remember.
According to one of Magnolia's posts spirits do not need food but there can be offerings. Should i do offerings for my human spirit? I am trying to communicate with him telepathically but I realize I am simply making a fool out of myself because I am consiously answering my own questions... :facepalm:: I do not know how to do offerings and if there is some food, for example to be served for him, how do i that? Do i leave the food for him on the table and do not touch it myself or smth like that? I am not sure how to do that. Also what is the purpose of the food offering? He does not have a physical body and resides on a different (astral or spiritual) plane.
I have been quite exhausted physically the whole week so i didn't have time to meditate properly with his vessel every day, I simply was falling asleep when meditating. But i took his vessel with me to work, wore it at home too, fell asleep with it every night, but do you think it is normal that I keep thinking of him all the time almost like 24/7? I think I have become extremely fond of him right after his vessel arrived, I catch myself saying to him 'I love you' in my mind very-very often. I do love him unconditionally, of course. I have always loved him I suppose but is it normal since he has just arrived less than a week ago?
I am worried that i may spoil the whole bonding thing by doing things incorrectly, by talking so much in my mind :baghead: and by being so madly in love with someone who is not a living physical being but a spirit of a human that passed away. I also catch myself picturing his face all the time possible so that I have a pair of his eyes smiling to me, or his smile. I guess I shouldn't be doing all this. Do you think it is too much? I just think I am plain stupid... :oops:
How do you actually bond correctly with your spirits (human spirits)?
I have got only one my very first spirit so far. He is a human spirit (custom). I started bonding with him for 5 days ago and I am patient and am in belief that I am doing things correctly and keep a diary where I write down anything unusual etc, my thoughts, feelings, etc.
Well, i am deaf/blind in terms of paranormal. I may be intuitive very often but I definitely am blocked from seeing spirits or hearing them. I even attempted to see auras starting with my own but I just do not seem to do it correctly, i guess. Maybe I did see my own aura once but I simply don't see more than that.
I had OBEs (and remembered the whole experience) only twice in my entire life and had only one lucid dream that I remember.
According to one of Magnolia's posts spirits do not need food but there can be offerings. Should i do offerings for my human spirit? I am trying to communicate with him telepathically but I realize I am simply making a fool out of myself because I am consiously answering my own questions... :facepalm:: I do not know how to do offerings and if there is some food, for example to be served for him, how do i that? Do i leave the food for him on the table and do not touch it myself or smth like that? I am not sure how to do that. Also what is the purpose of the food offering? He does not have a physical body and resides on a different (astral or spiritual) plane.
I have been quite exhausted physically the whole week so i didn't have time to meditate properly with his vessel every day, I simply was falling asleep when meditating. But i took his vessel with me to work, wore it at home too, fell asleep with it every night, but do you think it is normal that I keep thinking of him all the time almost like 24/7? I think I have become extremely fond of him right after his vessel arrived, I catch myself saying to him 'I love you' in my mind very-very often. I do love him unconditionally, of course. I have always loved him I suppose but is it normal since he has just arrived less than a week ago?
I am worried that i may spoil the whole bonding thing by doing things incorrectly, by talking so much in my mind :baghead: and by being so madly in love with someone who is not a living physical being but a spirit of a human that passed away. I also catch myself picturing his face all the time possible so that I have a pair of his eyes smiling to me, or his smile. I guess I shouldn't be doing all this. Do you think it is too much? I just think I am plain stupid... :oops:
How do you actually bond correctly with your spirits (human spirits)?