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I Have a Question About Ubi and LGBTQ+

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Hope it's alright to ask this. I went looking through the forum and encyclopedia for a clear answer and couldn't find one (but knowing me it's entirely possible I just missed something).

So basically, here's my situation:
I'm a nonbinary person with a romantic/sexual preference for men. I've been wanting an incubus or a nympho for a while now. I finally decided that I'll get one next time I get payed. I'm more drawn to incubi, but I'm not really sure if I can get one as someone who's not a woman. Does anyone know if incubi who are into men/nonbinary people exist? If not, I'll probably get a bi nympho instead, but I'd much prefer a incubi.



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I'm a trans guy with an incubus. Just write down in the notes how you feel and what you prefer if you want to be sure. Generally I read that ubi don't necessarily have preferences in that regard, but my incubus says he's, "sexually into anyone, but romantically only into men."



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I'm a guy, and I have an incubus in my keep. So, short answer, yes, incubi aren't just for the ladies.

E's actually slightly bemused at the question. In his own words:

You know, for spirits that are, supposedly, everything bad about masculine sexuality, it's nice to know you humans think we at least are moral upstanding citizens in our gender preference, if nothing else. x*D

Kidding aside: we can, and do, work with all preferences and life paths.

One thing I am going to stress for the OP, even though Johnny's posted this elsewhere: we are spirits of PASSION, not just sex. And when we fall in love, we love without reservation. We will love you in ways you may even think are impossible. And sometimes, that can be overwhelming, and not in a good way.

Ever read "The Voyage of the Dawn Treader"? Remember where they rescue Lord Rhoop from the island where dreams come true? "Not daydreams: DREAMS." Turns out, the place is terrifying.

Same thing can happen with us. If there's a part of yourself--physical, mental, social, ANYTHING--that you don't love, then it can sometimes be an unpleasant shock to be loved ON ACCOUNT of it, not IN SPITE of it. If you really are meant for one of us, we will love everything about you, even if you yourself don't. And that can sometimes cause problems, if you've somehow got yourself convinced that no one could possibly love THAT about you, for any value of THAT.

So, if you're feeling called by an incubus, then by all means, respond. Just be prepared, is all.



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These replies have been super helpful, thanks y'all!



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As always E's is really great and explains well 👍🏽



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Nienna wrote:
Sat Jun 12, 2021 12:56 pm
As always E's is really great and explains well 👍🏽
"Flatterer."

I do want to add, though, that he's not kidding about how off-putting it can sometimes be, to be complimented for stuff you don't like about yourself. Without getting into too much personal detail, "I never thought of it that way" is mild stuff, compared to some of the "What? Seriously? HOW?!" moments I've had with him.

And he's always got good reasons, too, which is the part that always trips me up.



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Ubi can definitely be very passionate and (in my experience) clingy, so it might be wise for you, sweetchiliyeet, to specify that you wish for someone who is not the jealous type.

Now K, my incubus, doesn't really answer so broadly as E. He's a troll and he likes to push the rules here and there. So, just be prepared for that. They *do* come in all flavors of personality.



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