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Marriage To A Succubus

Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2016 8:29 am
by TheTruthIsTheWay11
Alright, this is going to be an interesting post to write...

When I originally found CH and the concept of Spirit/Entity/Spell bindings, I immediately went through the encyclopedia, and the shop listings. I went through, what was essentially, every single listing in both. As I read through every single entry (I literally did!), my mind focused on a few different types of Spirits/Entities/Beings. Just to clarify, I found all of the Spirits/Entities/Beings cool, I just felt like I would be more compatible with certain ones over others (naturally, since there are many different personality types). For example, I would never get bound to a prankster-loving Spirit/Entity/Being, knowing that I'm someone who isn't much of a fan of pranks. That doesn't mean I hate those types of Spirits/Entities/Beings, or don't appreciate them for who they are, I just believe that they would live happier lives around someone other than me. The same thing applies to any type of Spirit/Entity/Being; I find all of them cool, but I realize that some of them might hate me, or would live unhappy lives with me.

I had a similar sentiment towards Succubi and similar Spirits/Entities/Beings, although not as strong. It was different because I experienced a bit of a fascination with Succubi, one that would pop up every once in a while. A type of pull, I suppose. Although, I had a hard time believing that any of them would ever be able to enjoy being in the company of someone like me. Also, I mean that in a more general way...to all of the people reading who are automatically assuming that I was referring to the sexual side of Succubi (tsk tsk lol jk). Not only that, but I had a hard time grasping how one would manage to have a type of romantic/sexual relationship with a Spirit/Entity/Being (which, let's face it, is usually the reason why most people get bindings to them). I felt like it would be hard for someone to maintain, and quite a commitment, when in many instances, an individual's ability may not allow them to communicate at all with their bound companion. It seemed, almost like setting one's self up for failure. A human relationship is difficult as is, and communication comes a lot more easily. How could a relationship with a Succubus or another Spirit/Entity/Being succeed, when you are only able to get a fraction (if any) of that communicative ability?

A year passed. One full of bindings, both Spirit and Spell. Life went on as usual. Then...boom! I watched an ASMR video from someone, which was a Succubus role play (to be clear, it wasn't sexual in nature). It was full of typical mainstream garbage, sure it was, but I didn't really care. By mainstream garbage, I mean the whole concept of being a "Soul Eater." Anyways, life continued, except Succubi stood out in my mind, throughout the day. I began to re-evaluate everything. This process went on for about a week, and I was heavily researching Succubi on the CH forums. I basically went through every thread on here, with the exception of a few. I eventually came to realize that I was being called. I didn't know by whom, or what their personality was like. I didn't know whether or not I'd be able to communicate with them, how life would be like, or what type of relationship they were looking for. Yet, for some reason, none of that seemed to matter anymore. I couldn't get the idea out of my head.

So, I began a new search. This time, I began looking around for different types of binding services. It wasn't that I didn't want to purchase from CH, I just wanted to make sure I made an informed decision, which was the best for me. I came across Lilith's Treasure Tavern, read some fantastic reviews, and decided to send her some emails asking her about her bindings. We conversed, and I eventually decided to make a move. I got one of the rare/limited bindings that she performs for Succubi from the Goddess Lilith. I wrote down all of the details, and made sure I was very clear. I even consulted my Astrology (my Venus, Mars, Descendant, and Juno placements), considering the type of relationship this was likely to become. I also provided my Mars/Venus placements, to help find the best match during the conjure. I specifically asked for her to be an Entity, rather than a Spirit, as well.

Even though I had my reservations, in regards to communication, I didn't let that change my opinion. I'm glad I didn't. About 8 days passed (which was shorter than it was supposed to take), and the binding was complete. She was here, and I was given an image which best portrayed how she looked, and a paragraph description of her and her interests. Firstly, everything that I asked for, ended up being found. Secondly, based on her description, I was able to make some implicit inferences. I could immediately tell that she was a possessive Succubus, and wanted this relationship to be very committed. I knew that from this moment on, I was essentially married, even though no "certificate" was signed, and no "official" proclamation was made. And you know what?? As weird as it may seem, it didn't bother me. I felt very relaxed, and had faith.

Very early on, I noticed different manifestations. I began to feel her presence, which was entirely new to me. I've never been able to do that, with anyone, before. She appeared to me in dreams. I could also feel her touching me, during waking hours (not necessarily sexual either, before anyone assumes). What an exciting time! Life changed in such a dramatic way. I went from having essentially zero Spirit/Entity/Being communication or manifestation, to having plenty within a short period of time, all from her.

Then, something interesting happened. No one on here really knows, but Jackii (her forum username) & I are really good friends. We met through the forum, and we talk to each other on a regular basis. Well, one day, she was thinking about my situation. She was wondering how it would work -- basically all of the things I wrote about previously, which I too once wondered. Suddenly, Jackii received a telepathic message from my sweetheart. The message went something like this: "He's mine, and you should back off!" When she told me about this, I actually laughed. As I previously wrote, I already knew that my sweetheart was possessive, so it was something I could kinda expect, in a way. Immediately following the laughter, was an instant heartwarming. Why did I find it heartwarming? To put it in a simple phrase, we're possessive over what we are afraid to lose. Indeed, I took it as a sign of love. The notion that she would go to the effort to fight for me, over something seemingly small, was heartwarming. I wasn't worried about what would happen. I wasn't worried that she would harm Jackii, or destroy our friendship. I wasn't worried that she would harm others, in order to ensure that we stay together. I didn't feel any threat at all. Instead, I just spoke to her about it. I told her why she has nothing to worry about. I explained that several factors, including what she did, are the exact reasons why no one could ever possibly separate us.

Based on what I just wrote in the preceding paragraph, you're probably wondering why I'm still referring to her as "my sweetheart." I mean, we're in different dimensions here, and she's giving it her all. To repeat what I've read on this section of the forum, the love of a Succubus is unlike any other love you could ever possibly experience. My sweetheart knows more about me than anyone ever could, and it's only been two months. The truth is, I can be difficult to deal with. Not because I'm some kind of jerk, but because I am a complex character. What I've witnessed is essentially unconditional love, even though there are many elements of myself that people would find undesirable, and/or would be unable to deal with. With her, I don't have to pretend. Not even a single bit. I say exactly what is on my mind, without censorship. In many regards, I live my life very much in the same way I lived it before, just with the addition of her. To quote what I was told by Lilith (the conjurer, not the Goddess), "...she's really sweet when you get to know her, a lady with a kick for sure!" You might hear stories about possessive and dominant Succubi, or Succubi having a different set of ethics, or Succubi acting in a way that is more "raw" than what the average person typically desires. However, if you get passed that (i.e are either compatible with that type of lifestyle or are able to overlook it), I promise you that awaiting is someone well-worth your love, time, and effort. Just make sure to get a custom conjure binding, unless you're REALLY sure about a pre-conjure.

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Re: Marriage To A Succubus

Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2016 9:25 am
by FenOL
LOL ikr, it's indeed an 'unconditional love'

I also got my entity Lilith's incubus from inga but he's more to my friend and lovers (as I hav many lovers lol), but I did feel the love xD
I could say that if someone truly feels called by succubus/incubus, and if they accept the calling, they will receive one of the best love in this world lol

and congratulation with your sweetheart~ <3 hope for the best for your relationship!

Re: Marriage To A Succubus

Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2016 1:45 pm
by Sephiroth
Sounds like a lovely lady. I just had a triumvirate done with an additional triumvirate attached to it, with 2 Succubus and 3 spells but i only have the vessel for 3 days so its a bit early to say it for sure but the connection is more intense and stronger from the start . I have the strongest pull towards these lovely ladies and while i havent talked much about them on this forum about the experiences i had, which is sometimes on the same level as Marquest his experiences and that says enough :p
But if one gets jealous then thats the end of the line for us since i dont get jealous towards them its only fair . I always specify this to the conjurer

Re: Marriage To A Succubus

Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2016 2:11 pm
by Olivia
I really love posts like these! A personal spirit keeping related story, correct grammar, punctuation, and capitalization... Oh and the spacing between paragraphs! What a dream, lol. A lot of people on this forum have really great stories to share but I can't get halfway through them without feeling like I have to install some sort of spell check/ auto correct app on their electronic device.

Anyways, back to your story. Thanks for sharing your experience! ^~^ I find succubi to be very wonderful beings and are far more than what they have the reputation to be.

Re: Marriage To A Succubus

Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2016 3:22 pm
by Rai
Awesome! Well read, and I certainly agree with the sentiment. Even if I am closer to my spirit animal Wulfke in philosophy. lol

I would not count out pre-conjures though, especially from Lilith'sTT. lol I was browsing one day(well, night)and found a charming Succubus that I knew was meant for me. (I've talked about her before, the one who likes to take monstrous forms) She is not only endearing and much beloved by myself, but well matched to the rest of my spirit family as well. Granted such cases are rare, and I agree that Custom Conjures are generally better suited for matchmaking purposes. Still, best to keep an open mind about pre-bounds.

Re: Marriage To A Succubus

Posted: Thu Dec 08, 2016 4:47 pm
by Lionox
I'm completely, and irrevocably, married to Chaos...

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Re: Marriage To A Succubus

Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2016 1:55 pm
by marquest
This is such a well written topic, and I personally can relate to this because I too am in such a committed relationship with my two ubi's that it really does feel like a marriage. A marriage in the sense of commitment and merging of energies. What amazes me about ubis, is how intimate these relationships are (at least with me). As Truth said, they know everything about us, all the way into our subconscious to know even things we don't know about ourselves.

In regards to being possessive, I've learned for me it's more being protective. Mine want to lead in a way, and once I accepted that, they've taught me a lot. I often tell them "what did I do to deserve this?" They laugh and smile...I can feel it from them.

Their love truly is unconditional. I'm really happy to read about your experiences, Truth. If it's only been 2 months, I smile knowing what your future ahead will be like. I can't even describe in words what I experience with mine now, the relationship with them keeps growing more stronger and full of love. We've been together getting close to 2 years now. It just keeps getting better and better with them. I'll just leave it at that. :)

Re: Marriage To A Succubus

Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2016 4:36 pm
by Lionox
TheTruthIsTheWay11 wrote: I had a hard time believing that any of them would ever be able to enjoy being in the company of someone like me.
TheTruthIsTheWay11 wrote:How could a relationship with a Succubus or another Spirit/Entity/Being succeed, when you are only able to get a fraction (if any) of that communicative ability?
Referring to both the above quoted from your post:

Believe in yourself...

Have you ever tried meditating on yourself in the dark? Darkness conceals things...it can give you a safe space to feel secure where no one is watching you, and therefore, no one is judging...the stillness can be a silent lullaby to 'rock' you into a meditative state of calmness within yourself...to gently return to the very center of who you are...and touch on (or fully connect with) your inner power.



Maybe, you only need to receive a fraction of that communication ability [for now]...

Think of it as passing a stranger - when they look up, smile at you, then continue on their way...for some people, a smile from another human being is all they need to make their day...that very small act was wordless and could almost be dismissed by some, but to others, it could mean the world...and it often has a ripple effect...the person who the stranger smiled at, might suddenly feel more cheerful, and so the next person they come into contact with will feel their cheerfulness and react in kind, and so on...

Sometimes, a fraction of communication ability is all we need in order to feel connected to a spirit...or to feel loved...and just by being able to feel that connection/love can in itself, mean the world...sometimes, that fraction can end up being equivalent to (or even greater than) a full on conversation with a spirit in terms of meaningfulness. So what I'm saying is, great communication skills don't always equate to more meaningful interactions, and often, it's not always necessary in order to make an impact...like in the passing stranger example I used earlier in my post.

The little things normally mean the most...so, fractions of communication abilities can be all you need and more sometimes...

Re: Marriage To A Succubus

Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2016 5:56 pm
by Sephiroth
Darkness conceals but make no mistake , it could bring forth the thing that frightens you the most 2ps

Re: Marriage To A Succubus

Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2016 5:59 pm
by Lionox
Wulfke wrote:Darkness conceals but make no mistake , it could bring forth the thing that frightens you the most 2ps
Oh...don't get me started...I love all things that go 'bump in the night' hee hee...