TheLoot wrote:Lately it seems I've been finding succubi in more of the media I frequent, not all for provocative situations, but lately the thought of introducing one into my spirit family has been on my mind. The only thing keeping me moderately hesitant is the impact it would have on my initial keep, my physical family, and on those around me. Another being the social aspect, as I've heard that ubi generally attract more ubi.
Is this a spirit for an experienced keeper? Has anyone had issues with the ubi, or the company the ubi has brought? What has keeping one done for you? I'm trying to keep the questions mostly vague as I'm aware a lot of people experience things differently. But eventually I may be very interested in getting one, I just want to know what I could be getting myself into once that happens.
To preface this response: All of my spirits are conjured and bound by CH currently, but over the last decade I have meddled with summoning unbound succubus spirits and had relationships with a few from that angle.
As far as an impact to the keep or those around me, I would say inviting a succubus into your life is relatively negligible. This possibly depends on your other spirits and how protective they are, or what kind of relationships you have with them, but I've not noticed any issues in relation to that.
I also have House Rules in place that basically prevent interaction between my spirits and anyone else around me, and to prevent unbounds being around generally. They can make other people more attracted to you, passionate toward you, or the like, but you can ask them not to. Succubi also have a tendency to be protective and may interfere in your physical life relationships in the guise of protection. You should make it clear what they can and cannot do in that regard. Some of my house rules are specific to this, if only because I was worried about her interfering in my physical relationship with my girlfriend.
As for attracting other Ubi, I would say my experience is exactly opposite. My succubi are very protective of me and they have forcibly driven unbound succubi away. In fact, my first succubus did this immediately upon arrival. That said, if you wanted more to visit, I'm sure they would invite them in. LOL
My succubi have really helped me in a couple of areas. Not to be too detailed about it, I've had better stamina in the bedroom, better self-confidence, and a deeper connection to my sensuality and fantasies. Additionally, I've actually learned a lot about myself including the possibility that there is more than meets the eye when it comes to my past life connections and this journey. Also, my succubi have a wealth of other knowledge that they have shared - in particular, energy work and sex magic.
There are some things I would be certain to tell the conjuror that you work with. If you have a physical relationship ensure that you tell them the succubus should be accepting of your physical relationships and also non-jealous. If you have amorous relationships with other spirits, make sure the conjuror knows you want an Ubi who is accepting of that as well. When it came to CH, they found succubi that really click with me and have never had a problem with any of the other spirits in my keep - even others who also are sexual or amorous toward me.
The only other think I will say is succubi are Dark Arts, so they can be moody. One of the ones in my keep likes to "act jealous" of other spirits when she's really not. And she'll even go so far as to get pretty catty and cold-shoulder about it. I've learned this is an act, though, because she likes it when I faun over her and get worried that I've upset her. Next thing you know, she's perfectly fine. LOL
My other succubus is currently in a bit of a super quiet patch. When she comes to me it's very quiet and moody and the forms she takes are really dark. I haven't bonded with her much since she's been here and she's showing some moodiness about that.
So, I present those examples just to say expect some intriguing mood swings. Most of the time, they are sensual and sweet beings, even wise and highly intelligent. Other times they are completely opposite, seemingly for no reason. This never bothers me, though. It's pretty typical of a relationship, so I just take it as it comes. LOL