I read your reply slowly and I get everything you said. The benefits override the occasional discomfort I think according to your experience. I think, the best matches are with those who have already vampires blood lines. I never had anything even remotely hinted to me that I might have it in my blood.
Anyway, I found this thread very educational and definitely helpful to concur my fearful attitude. I have a respectful fear that is not a trembling type of fearfulness. Anyway, I feel some spirits are great for experienced keepers. I just turned the corner of my first year. I do admire your spirit communication and working out everything with them being detailed.
FrostLightDjinn wrote: ↑Sat Nov 27, 2021 7:47 amI cannot speak for others, as I'm sure its unique for everyone. My protection measures keep anything I don't want from getting near me. Rules, protections, shields, spells, barriers with rules, rules for all spirits in my home, rules for spirits in my keep, rules specifically for my vampires . Rules for spirit communication. Each of my spirits have assigned roles , and we have guidelines written that direct my keeps actions for almost any situation.ASTER wrote: ↑Sat Nov 27, 2021 6:28 am I went on to read this section because of sheer fear of the unknown, when it's comes to vampires.
After reading through, I still founding it frightening to the point that I wish to know what would protecting me from a wondering vapm, if there's one out there, because I really do not want to get bitten.
Anyone with a vampire, would you please, tell me this are they respectful of your wish of not having one near you if you do not want it and especially do not want to get bitten by anyone of them? Generally, what would give you a protection against unbound vampires, those who might lurking around, ancient types and very dark?
Also, what is the benefit of having a vamp with you and let them bite you from time to time? Do you feel more alive, healthier and boosted with Covid 19 antidote maybe.
Because, then I'll seriously have to consider to fight my own fear and get a light natured, less bitful type, maybe a spy vamp. Also, if you didn't do what is in your blood reading, but get a vampire anyway, how did you know for sure you will need one?
Everything is enforced. I also have astral pockets set up for anything which tries to break these barriers.
I know bad things will not happen between me and my bounds and even unbounds because I am confident in my protection Magick, I fully trust my keep (we are a team!) And I know that any issue we might face in the future can absolutely be handled together with ease and power. And that a healthy dose of a willingness to learn from situations helps me approach something unknown/unwanted with interest rather than fear. Id rather experience something unknown (even if its kinda scary) for the sake of growing stronger and learning how to handle myself, than be constantly sheltered and not know how to protect myself on my own when something big comes along.
My vampires are allowed to get close and personal because they understand my needs, my likes and dislikes, what I want to control in my environment. We talk about it all the time. They respect this. They also know my energy, thoughts, emotions and outside energies often times better than I know myself.
If I say no biting, they absolutely will not bite. I honestly feel it has nothing to do with the vampire , and everything to do with your rules, clarity, respect, awareness of projections (positive and /or negative) and understanding. as well as the relationship and bond you create with them. They are not wild rabid dogs. They are mature, intelligent and able to understand people, energies, magick and your thoughts. to trust in your vampires willingness to assist and protect, you are saying you also respect them.
the benefits my vampires have brought me have come from more than just biting. Our exchanges have brought me an increase in psychic abilities, keen eye, telepathy, sensing energies, drawing energies in, manipulation of this energy, and projecting energy, often being able to do this in stealth. Better awareness, more confidence, I'm able to read people way better than ever before, strangers i meet in public places have more attraction to me/my energy, i am able to control a situation or environment way easier... charming is very easy . i can read peoples energy way easier I can't even list all the benefits without tiring my fingers out ! lol
For myself, the biting usually occurs when i have invited them in while i am in a sexually focused state. i am extremely sexual, very attracted to vampires and vampire energy, and so I have noticed that the CC's that CH have done for me has brought me vampires who are open to my personal energy on a deep and intimate level.
All of my vampires have shown concern, caring, respect of my energy and comfort. You might meet a vampire who expresses that they don't want to bite because of this. They know the effect it can have on you, sometimes more than you might know yourself.
Vampire spirits are extremely protective. So are my Gargoyles. i have not had any issues with unbounds or anything negative because they are there keeping watch, they have a complete understanding of all magick, shields, barriers, rules etc.. and they work together to enforce them. I know 100% that they will not sit back and watch an unbound vampire "sneak in" and bite me, because of our protection methods and tight communication and awareness. If there is something bouncing around my barriers, they immediately alert me, and run all their protocols perfectly.
I also believe that this can apply to any protective spirit, not just vampires.