Jasmin wrote:You'll definitely need some house rules regarding manifestations, especially if you're easily scared.
This
,D I had an unbound Abchanchu around me.. dunno if he’s still lurking around, maybe as sometimes I get this familiar chill down my spine, but I have a feeling that is the one spirit who was spooking me now that I’ve kind of got a feel for the Incubus I have bound lol.
I was seeing a full on shadow figure with red eyes hovering by my bed staring at me, and it would overwhelm me so much that one night I jumped up and asked him to at least give me warning if he was going to manifest or appear in a way that won’t scare the life out of me, and than the intense manifestations stopped.
I got curious after realizing he listened to me. The next time I seen what I think was him was a very vivid man walking up my stairs. Seen the reflection in the window, and when I looked into the stairway there was nothing there xD freaked out a little again lol but instead of running like a chicken I tried to talk to him, asked his name, and heard a voice answer me but it was muffled so I couldn’t make it out. Deff not the incubus’s name though, and the Incubus though overwhelming rarely doesn’t instill complete breathless panic in me lmao.
But, I’ve also read so many saying Abchanchu’s aren’t for beginners, or the inexperienced so I was hesitant to further interact with him, and it didn’t make sense to me because if that’s who’s been manifesting so strongly to me despite not being bound he’s done nothing but respect my wishes when I made it clear he was freaking me out.
Now, I’m more curious about him than ever lately 1h
These days I miss the intense manifestations despite them scaring me
,) sometimes I also wonder if bindings hinder those interactions also because they’re meant to be safer. I got my first binding because I figured maybe it would make it easier for me to distinguish who’s around me, and it has to an extent, but I think I prefer them unbound, though it’s nice knowing they want to be bound to you when they make it known.
I don’t go as far as house rules, my only rule is mutual respect and I haven’t had any issues thus far. If I ever do experience needing stricter boundaries, I’d set them though. I’ve noticed as I said, if you’re verbal about something when it’s too much, whether bound or unbound, they tend to respect it if they mean you no harm.
So my advice is, if you’re nervous about the Abchanchu, just express what it is that you’re not comfortable with if she comes off too overwhelming. Chances are if she hasn’t scared the life out of you yet, she knows and respects you enough not to lol.