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Do Anti-callings exist?
Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2019 8:01 pm
by Muse
You ever feel drawn to a Spirit and then get a bunch of random negative feelings that you shouldn't buy them...
I've had this happen and I'm unsure if it's my own doubts due to financial and personal stability, my keep, or the Spirit listed. The ironic thing was a few times I'd gone back with just the intention of reading and I'd gotten those feelings, knowing full well I didn't plan to buy them. So it just strikes me as odd...
I had emailed the seller but they haven't done much to clear anything up, as they seem to have given me the usual jargon instead of an actual personal response. So I'm a bit lost here lol. Obviously due to such feelings I'm not going to purchase, but they seem to be under the impression that I had asked for an invoice to make a down-payment by me asking if it was a calling and if they didn't want to go with me and if that was why I was getting those feelings. I had also explained my financial situation to her so she had a better idea of why I felt like it might not actually be the Spirits but my own subconscious or my own keep.
So I guess maybe she might have misunderstood that part...
I dunno. If she sends me an invoice am I obligated to not let the listed Spirits down? Now I'm just guilting myself. v_v
Re: Do Anti-callings exist?
Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2019 8:19 pm
by Alys-RaccoonReadings
Sounds like intuition to me, at a minimum. Either way it's good sign that it's not your best course.
Re: Do Anti-callings exist?
Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2019 8:28 pm
by featheredstar
This has happened to me before, too. When I tried to bring in a new spirit and became a little obsessed with the whole purchasing adventure, too soon after I got a new companion in. I constantly felt like something was telling me no. I realized that I needed to slow down and put some distance between the sellers I was looking at and myself, and focus on my companions.
Of course, that only worked for so long, but now I actually saw things in a new perspective and I gave myself the time I needed before bringing someone new home. So I can attest to it is a feeling.
Something to remind yourself of; if you were meant for that spirit, that spirit will still be listed when you are ready for them. If that spirit is not listed when you become ready, than it wasn't meant to be :)
Regarding the invoice, if you do not feel you're ready for that spirit, just explain it in further details and turn her down. Just like a spirit would turn you down if they felt you weren't the person they should go to (Which ofc happens rarely, but it does happen).
Re: Do Anti-callings exist?
Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2019 8:38 pm
by Muse
Alys-RaccoonReadings wrote:Sounds like intuition to me, at a minimum. Either way it's good sign that it's not your best course.
Yeah, I thought so. I just felt other confirmation would make me feel better about the decision.
featheredstar wrote:This has happened to me before, too. When I tried to bring in a new spirit and became a little obsessed with the whole purchasing adventure, too soon after I got a new companion in. I constantly felt like something was telling me no. I realized that I needed to slow down and put some distance between the sellers I was looking at and myself, and focus on my companions.
Of course, that only worked for so long, but now I actually saw things in a new perspective and I gave myself the time I needed before bringing someone new home. So I can attest to it is a feeling.
Something to remind yourself of; if you were meant for that spirit, that spirit will still be listed when you are ready for them. If that spirit is not listed when you become ready, than it wasn't meant to be
Regarding the invoice, if you do not feel you're ready for that spirit, just explain it in further details and turn her down. Just like a spirit would turn you down if they felt you weren't the person they should go to (Which ofc happens rarely, but it does happen).
Thank you, for your perspective and the second opinion. I think I'll do that.
Re: Do Anti-callings exist?
Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2019 9:07 pm
by Alys-RaccoonReadings
Re: Do Anti-callings exist?
Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2019 11:28 pm
by Ellie44
Alys-RaccoonReadings wrote:
Alys, seriously I love your all your silly replies haha you always have me giggling.
There must be a reason you are uneasy. Have you purchased from this conjurer before?
Re: Do Anti-callings exist?
Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2019 11:45 pm
by Muse
Ellie44 wrote:There must be a reason you are uneasy. Have you purchased from this conjurer before?
I have not but I've read their reviews on CH and they seemed well liked. Granted, I did that with another seller who was also well liked and wasn't treated all that great so I guess that's not saying much haha...I'm trying not to base my experiences on past negative ones though.
Re: Do Anti-callings exist?
Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2019 11:48 pm
by Alys-RaccoonReadings
Ellie44 wrote:Alys-RaccoonReadings wrote:
Alys, seriously I love your all your silly replies haha you always have me giggling.
There must be a reason you are uneasy. Have you purchased from this conjurer before?
Re: Do Anti-callings exist?
Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2019 11:49 pm
by Alys-RaccoonReadings
Ellie44 wrote:
Alys, seriously I love your all your silly replies haha you always have me giggling.
There must be a reason you are uneasy. Have you purchased from this conjurer before?
Curse these fat thumbs!!!
That was supposed to say, “I just know what kind of forum experience I want.”
Re: Do Anti-callings exist?
Posted: Tue Jan 29, 2019 11:57 pm
by Ellie44
Alys-RaccoonReadings wrote:Ellie44 wrote:
Alys, seriously I love your all your silly replies haha you always have me giggling.
There must be a reason you are uneasy. Have you purchased from this conjurer before?
Curse these fat thumbs!!!
That was supposed to say, “I just know what kind of forum experience I want.”
Well I like your style 2wk