Living Entity help.

[Hansolo2001]

Ok so i got a Concuan? I believe that is how its spelt. Ok long story short, i feel like im not doing something right. I am mot sure how exactly to interact with her but any advice would be greatly appreciated. I have yet to manifest her or see her in a dream. Am i doing something wrong or did i miss something? Like is there some kinda secret to interacting? I have ADHD and dyslexia so i tried meditating and the mantra but i really botched the speech part of the mantra lol. As a side note that im not 100% sure is happening but since binding ive been getting some mild headaches. Thank you for your help.

[WiseRavenRunes]

You definitely want to try and nail down the mantra. Correct pronunciation of non-English words in particular is relevant because for those the energy is contained within the sound itself.

Is this your first companion? My personal experiences with LEs are that they are not as easy to connect to as spirits as they aren't always available. But others may have different opinions on that. Use the codewords provided for whatever level of interaction you desire. It is likely that she has already appeared in your dreams but you have not consciously recognized or been able to recall it. If this is all new to you, then it will take some time to really stretch out your spiritual muscles. Chances are, you're just flexing them for the first time in your life now. Results won't be instant.

The headaches are most likely acclimation and should go away shortly, but if you want you can tell her to try and tone down her energy to help with that quicker. She can hear you if you call out to her, whether you hear her response or not.

[Alaric]

Ok so i got a Concuan? I believe that is how its spelt. Ok long story short, i feel like im not doing something right. I am mot sure how exactly to interact with her but any advice would be greatly appreciated. I have yet to manifest her or see her in a dream. Am i doing something wrong or did i miss something? Like is there some kinda secret to interacting? I have ADHD and dyslexia so i tried meditating and the mantra but i really botched the speech part of the mantra lol. As a side note that im not 100% sure is happening but since binding ive been getting some mild headaches. Thank you for your help.

This is quite common. Have you previously experienced manifestations or dream visits on a regular basis? Or is all of this pretty new to you?

If you're a beginner at this - even if you have some experience - a good tip is to ease off. Give yourself some credit for what you are doing. If you take the pressure off yourself, relax, things will usually go better.

Another good one is to not compare ourselves to others. We may read other people's stories about their spirits' or LEs' manifestations and think that's the goal to aim for. But we don't all experience these things exactly the same way. Letting our living entities or spirits find their own comfortable way to connect with and manifest to us is far better than striving to force a manifestation that we're chasing.

One of the tips that crops up in ASH's writings is to let thoughts, impressions and feelings come to us. Don't force the mental narrative. That leaves it open to our companions to find the way through to us that works best. That may turn out to be different from what we expected. Whether spending quiet time with the being in each other's close company to develop the bond or waiting for manifestation the same general principles are at work.

So: let go of expectations. Expectations are a problem even for people experienced in metaphysical things. Practitioners of Buddhism sometimes talk about trying to get back to a state called Beginner's Mind.
That's one where you let the experience reveal itself to you as if you don't know what it's going to be.

CH advice in an Encyclopedia entry I've often cited is to not ignore subtle impressions. That may well be them trying to get through.

Another thing to try and bear in mind is our companions don't all connect with us the same way either...yet another reason to allow them to establish that in their own way, rather than what we want to achieve.

Our companions do try all kinds of ways to get through to us. We just need to notice.

Finally, I'm convinced that millions of people around the globe are in touch with their deceased loved ones on a regular basis without ever having taken a single psychic development class. It's far easier than we think. But blocks are easy to form. Even the slightest mental uncertainty or worry can get in the way.

With an LE make sure you use the codewords.

And allow time. Have patience. Don't give up. They don't give up on us. That, if anything, is the secret.

Headaches are less likely with WA beings. Have you much previous of experience with strong spiritual/ paranormal energy? If so, did it cause headaches? If you don't have much experience with it, it's conceivable you're not yet used to even positive paranormal energy. A simple thing is to invite your Concuan to help ease any reaction ls you have to their energy.

[CrowsKeep]

Ok so i got a Concuan? I believe that is how its spelt. Ok long story short, i feel like im not doing something right. I am mot sure how exactly to interact with her but any advice would be greatly appreciated. I have yet to manifest her or see her in a dream. Am i doing something wrong or did i miss something? Like is there some kinda secret to interacting? I have ADHD and dyslexia so i tried meditating and the mantra but i really botched the speech part of the mantra lol. As a side note that im not 100% sure is happening but since binding ive been getting some mild headaches. Thank you for your help.

I'm probably just parroting the same things that others have said, but I think my perspective may be helpful. So, don't worry, this is perfectly normal! Especially if your a beginner (I assume you are). Headaches can be a common sign of you getting used to their energy! There are other ways to meditate besides just laying down and doing nothing! You could do something like dance, or a do a repetitive activity! I've meditated while drawing, and even while playing Mario Kart on a low difficulty because I wanted show a spirit friend the game but still communicate with him. There is no secret to interacting except for practice. When I was first starting out, I could barely feel my spirits. I couldn't feel any other touches except when I was in deep meditation. I couldn't glean what offerings they wanted without going into mediation. And now, even without intentionally practicing, just doing it over until I got used to the form of interacting, I got it right. Trust me, you will get there eventually. It just takes a bit of practice.

Ah, sorry that turned out to be more comfort than help 😅 sorry

Totally forgot to add this but, I would work on trying to remember your dreams. Maybe get a dream journal or something, as that can help you to remember them eventually. Also, keep in mind that spirits may not keep their true form in your dreams. When they do show up, they often may look different then their described!

[Hansolo2001]

You definitely want to try and nail down the mantra. Correct pronunciation of non-English words in particular is relevant because for those the energy is contained within the sound itself.

Is this your first companion? My personal experiences with LEs are that they are not as easy to connect to as spirits as they aren't always available. But others may have different opinions on that. Use the codewords provided for whatever level of interaction you desire. It is likely that she has already appeared in your dreams but you have not consciously recognized or been able to recall it. If this is all new to you, then it will take some time to really stretch out your spiritual muscles. Chances are, you're just flexing them for the first time in your life now. Results won't be instant.

The headaches are most likely acclimation and should go away shortly, but if you want you can tell her to try and tone down her energy to help with that quicker. She can hear you if you call out to her, whether you hear her response or not.

Yes this is my first LE companion. Is there a good source to use in learning how to pronounce these code words. And yes definitely very new to all of this.

[Hansolo2001]

Ok so i got a Concuan? I believe that is how its spelt. Ok long story short, i feel like im not doing something right. I am mot sure how exactly to interact with her but any advice would be greatly appreciated. I have yet to manifest her or see her in a dream. Am i doing something wrong or did i miss something? Like is there some kinda secret to interacting? I have ADHD and dyslexia so i tried meditating and the mantra but i really botched the speech part of the mantra lol. As a side note that im not 100% sure is happening but since binding ive been getting some mild headaches. Thank you for your help.

This is quite common. Have you previously experienced manifestations or dream visits on a regular basis? Or is all of this pretty new to you?

If you're a beginner at this - even if you have some experience - a good tip is to ease off. Give yourself some credit for what you are doing. If you take the pressure off yourself, relax, things will usually go better.

Another good one is to not compare ourselves to others. We may read other people's stories about their spirits' or LEs' manifestations and think that's the goal to aim for. But we don't all experience these things exactly the same way. Letting our living entities or spirits find their own comfortable way to connect with and manifest to us is far better than striving to force a manifestation that we're chasing.

One of the tips that crops up in ASH's writings is to let thoughts, impressions and feelings come to us. Don't force the mental narrative. That leaves it open to our companions to find the way through to us that works best. That may turn out to be different from what we expected. Whether spending quiet time with the being in each other's close company to develop the bond or waiting for manifestation the same general principles are at work.

So: let go of expectations. Expectations are a problem even for people experienced in metaphysical things. Practitioners of Buddhism sometimes talk about trying to get back to a state called Beginner's Mind.
That's one where you let the experience reveal itself to you as if you don't know what it's going to be.

CH advice in an Encyclopedia entry I've often cited is to not ignore subtle impressions. That may well be them trying to get through.

Another thing to try and bear in mind is our companions don't all connect with us the same way either...yet another reason to allow them to establish that in their own way, rather than what we want to achieve.

Our companions do try all kinds of ways to get through to us. We just need to notice.

Finally, I'm convinced that millions of people around the globe are in touch with their deceased loved ones on a regular basis without ever having taken a single psychic development class. It's far easier than we think. But blocks are easy to form. Even the slightest mental uncertainty or worry can get in the way.

With an LE make sure you use the codewords.

And allow time. Have patience. Don't give up. They don't give up on us. That, if anything, is the secret.

Headaches are less likely with WA beings. Have you much previous of experience with strong spiritual/ paranormal energy? If so, did it cause headaches? If you don't have much experience with it, it's conceivable you're not yet used to even positive paranormal energy. A simple thing is to invite your Concuan to help ease any reaction ls you have to their energy.

I have zero paranormal experience that im aware of. Thank you for your help.

[Faelyra]

I've been a spirit keeper for about a year now and have yet to be able to get my spirits to manifest in my dreams. So that might be something that can take quite awhile to happen. Manifesting in general can take a lot of energy for either spirits or entities to do. So I am always sure to give out a lot of offerings to help with that energy. Take things a day at a time. Even if you don't see or feel them, just talk out loud. Let them know you are thinking about them. That will help you feel connected in a way without having to stress about meditating or any of those other things.

Like the others have said. Headaches are normal. When I first got my Xirax dragon, I got seriously overwhelmed by his energy until I told him to chill out. Then I spent the next three days feeling like all of my energy was zapped right out of me. Same with my wyvern. It might take a few days to just acclimate to their energy. That is very very normal and there is nothing wrong in that.

If you are also having trouble communicating. Don't be shy to try and use a pendulum. It makes that process a whole of a lot easier and can help build those bridges you might need to try telepathy. A good exercise is to think of a question and ask the pendulum (in your mind).

[Alaric]

Yes this is my first LE companion. Is there a good source to use in learning how to pronounce these code words. And yes definitely very new to all of this.

The CH living entity codewords text document gives a pronunciation guide. But if for example English is not your first language and/or you have difficulty with the pronunciation guides for each codeword, why not ask for more help from Creepy Hollows support?

[email protected]

[Hansolo2001]

Yes this is my first LE companion. Is there a good source to use in learning how to pronounce these code words. And yes definitely very new to all of this.

The CH living entity codewords text document gives a pronunciation guide. But if for example English is not your first language and/or you have difficulty with the pronunciation guides for each codeword, why not ask for more help from Creepy Hollows support?

[email protected]

Ah yes good idea thank you