Is this possible

[pokemonsavage]

Can a clingy unbound keep coming back from banishments if it really wanted to

[pokemonsavage]

Ive got a clingy unbound that has survived banishments almost every other day for 5 months and refuses to leave and we are soul mates , but he never follows my house rules

[mochi.icecream]

Yeah, they can. I've had to call upon the archangels before to get rid of spirits like that. Is it giving you a lot of trouble?

[Lewk]

Can a clingy unbound keep coming back from banishments if it really wanted to

The expert opinion that Ive read here again and again is, if the banishments are by acknowledged experts (eg CH) or are known to be effective banishments, even if you did them yourself...then the chances are what you're experiencing is a projection, a kind of self-generated thought form.

I understand CH advise people they do banishments for to stop thinking about the problem; to stop their mind returning to it again and again. I guess sometimes - with an ineffective banishment - you could be kind of letting the unbound back in again, or continually re-establishing contact with it.

But the other advantage of turning your thoughts completely away from the unbound is you're less likely to be generating a self-persecuting thought form / projection. Put simply, your mind will learn to stop bothering yourself about it.

[Thyr]

Lewk is making a good point here.
You wrote it's a soulmate? Are you thinking about them every now and then?

[stormdancer]

More importantly, HOW do you know it's a soulmate?

[Hazell]

Perhaps a banishment and cord cutting may be what is needed? Checking that their connection to you is severed after the banishment and also doing a deep cleanse of the space.

This is what I would personally do in that case. If it’s a clingy unbound and it’s saying it’s your soulmate I would be doubtful. I had issues years ago when I was first starting where a malicious trickster claimed the same, but it was just an attempt to get closer to me.

[pokemonsavage]

More importantly, HOW do you know it's a soulmate?

yeah i didnt write that correctly they keep SAYING we are but im doubtful of that tbh

[pokemonsavage]

Lewk is making a good point here.
You wrote it's a soulmate? Are you thinking about them every now and then?

well yeah but its never really positive just thinking about experiences , and ive never gone out of my way to make contact with them or talk to them, from my understanding you have to have intent with inviting them back in you cant really do it subconsciously , and my intent is always i never want them around so idk

[pokemonsavage]

Yeah, they can. I've had to call upon the archangels before to get rid of spirits like that. Is it giving you a lot of trouble?

yeah a bit just makes me feel like dirt and says mean stuff or tries to be sexual with me