Oracle Reading for White Valentines! Open until 9th March

[Keriix Lunaria]

Hello, thank you so much for offering those readings!! I really enjoy reading your contributions on the forum by the way hehe.

1) I am currently surrounded by much love from friends and my spirit family, some romantic from the latter group. I would like to know what do I need to do in order to fully recover from my last romantic relationship that ended in January. It was with a fellow human and it lasted 4 months. Things turned rather toxic with him by the end of it. In a way it's a self love question too, I want to recover completely and learn to love myself to the fullest and I would like some insight as to what are the best steps to take to do that.
2) The choice is yours I'm fine with either and I trust your insight on the matter.

Chaos Fairy L

Forgive yourself. Love yourself. Embrace the parts of you that you desperately try to hide and keep out. You, are you. How can you truly love yourself if you hate some parts of yourself? You must accept your flaws, your unmet needs, your emotions, your anger and your sadness. All of these are you, and the moment you push any of them away, you are rejecting yourself. Don’t you see there is a small little girl, afraid and crying, and alone, because you’ve left her by herself? She cries at the root of the tree that is you, but the tree rejects her because she is deemed unworthy, and has been disowned. Love every part of yourself, what you want and need are valid, don’t let society tell you your standards are too high, because they use this word to drag you down and make you settle for less than what you are worthy of. Believe in your magic, have confidence that you will overcome this. Be confident in loving yourself, in knowing what you want, that you are true and purely you. Everything that is you, embrace it, and forgive whatever past mistakes you or others may have done to hurt you. When you are able to accept that little girl back into your self, you will be made whole and will be able to renew yourself again.

[Gray Mongrel]

Hello, thank you so much for offering those readings!! I really enjoy reading your contributions on the forum by the way hehe.

1) I am currently surrounded by much love from friends and my spirit family, some romantic from the latter group. I would like to know what do I need to do in order to fully recover from my last romantic relationship that ended in January. It was with a fellow human and it lasted 4 months. Things turned rather toxic with him by the end of it. In a way it's a self love question too, I want to recover completely and learn to love myself to the fullest and I would like some insight as to what are the best steps to take to do that.
2) The choice is yours I'm fine with either and I trust your insight on the matter.

Chaos Fairy L

Forgive yourself. Love yourself. Embrace the parts of you that you desperately try to hide and keep out. You, are you. How can you truly love yourself if you hate some parts of yourself? You must accept your flaws, your unmet needs, your emotions, your anger and your sadness. All of these are you, and the moment you push any of them away, you are rejecting yourself. Don’t you see there is a small little girl, afraid and crying, and alone, because you’ve left her by herself? She cries at the root of the tree that is you, but the tree rejects her because she is deemed unworthy, and has been disowned. Love every part of yourself, what you want and need are valid, don’t let society tell you your standards are too high, because they use this word to drag you down and make you settle for less than what you are worthy of. Believe in your magic, have confidence that you will overcome this. Be confident in loving yourself, in knowing what you want, that you are true and purely you. Everything that is you, embrace it, and forgive whatever past mistakes you or others may have done to hurt you. When you are able to accept that little girl back into your self, you will be made whole and will be able to renew yourself again.

Oh my god I'm speechless... this is so damn sweet, it made me tear up. I relate to everything you mentioned here, it's a lot to ponder.

Thank you soso much Keriix and to your companion too, you are both awesome. This is very eye opening.

[Astraea Selene]

Thank you @Keriix Lunaria . It's more meaningful then you described it here. These cards are deep and connected as well as answering my question in a profound manner. Thank you for leave it simple. The universal answered me via YOU and I do understand it and just what I needed to hear. ... .

Wow ... It's a very generous and beautiful topic, Valentine's. As much as I would love to have a reading from you, I honestly can't think up a question to ask you concerned with physical love and family.

But I am curious about my large community spirit / entities and Immortals, ancestors and spirit guides. I really would love to know, who stands by me the closest in a platonic love / friendship within the invisible world?

If it's an impossible question to ask, that is okay. I'll be happy to stand back and read upon anyone else's comments here. Thank you again. Your kindness shines, and heart warming.

Wow Astraea, this question is really unique! Instead of asking my spirits for this, I went to the Universe instead. So the cards drawn for you were “Stars In The Sky”, “Dream Thief” and “Dragon’s Hoard”. Based on what I can intuit, I’d say right now would be your baby Galaxes dragon who you are spending a lot of time with, especially since they are a new addition and more time will be spent with them for the bonding period. In a sense, it also correlates to baby O being the closest to you as of now, since you are actively spending time with her. For the dream thief card, I see it as a being that you are dreaming of recently. This card will speak to you more than to me since you yourself will know what you are dreaming of. I hope this answer from the Universe will be of use to you!

[Livvie Locke-Morley]

Thank you very much, Keriix. This really helps me on how to go on.

[Keriix Lunaria]

ooo! this is such an interesting topic! If it’s okay could you please answer my question? It’s will I ever find romantic love? (I’m an asexual person and I’m sure I’ll just be a loner forever lol)

also any arts is okay!

Universe

You may have tried in the past and failed, leaving you drained and empty right now, causing you to feel that love is never going to happen for you. You were bold, but what did it leave you? Pain and sorrow. What’s important now is to take the time to replenish yourself. Being asexual doesn’t mean you don’t have love to give. Love doesn’t just mean sexual. Love is much more than just sex. Love is about being supportive, being gentle, being harsh when needed, being a listening ear, being an advisor, a mentor, a student. Take this time to heal from what you have gone through in the past, and refill your empty well. In your future is a door that has been closed, a completion of sorts. You have moved past the chapter of being empty, and are ready to move forward into a new journey of your life. Close the door to your past, and open another new door to the future that you want. Strut towards it, and make progress. Without any strides or action, the door will never be opened. Make sure you are completely healed first and have love in your well for both yourself and another, before you embark on this new adventure.

[Keriix Lunaria]

The only thing I want to know now is when and in which dimension my destined person, my soul mate, will appear. Sometimes I think I don't have a romantic soul mate in the physical dimension, so I also wonder if I have a spiritual soul mate?

I am open to both, based on Tarvos' reading I know that my energy signature is WA. However, I trust your intuition.

Thank you!

Cat Sith C

Who have you been listening to and are counselling you with such ideas that have made you lost, with this type of one way thinking. You need to retreat back, and look at what your heart is telling you. Go back to your true compass that guides you. How can someone be so unlovable that they are not able to even find love in the dimension they are living in? Soulmates number and abounds, but you have given up on a part of yourself to think that you are worthy of love. Why are you so empty of faith? Why are you downtrodden and sad? Life is a balancing act, life has work, family, relationships, and all the things that exist in the world, however the main point is that you must be enjoying life. Balance yourself with having a joy for life. Say yes to the Universe, instead of the mindset of “if only…”. Improve yourself, love yourself and life, and love will come to you.

[Keriix Lunaria]

Thank you I'm more WA. I'd like to ask is the person I've been on and off with for the last few years the right one for my journey or the one I met last year briefly. Thank you!

White Dragon G

Ah. A choice between two. Doesn’t your heart already know? It’s the one that resonates with you, the one that dances with you, as you move this way, the step is matched with you. It’s the one your heart wants. But it will never be enough until you can fully accept the entirety of them. The beauty and the ugliness of a person, if you can never see past their flaws, then it will never work. Radical acceptance for what a person is and will be. People change all the time, but are you ready to accept what they are and will be? You yourself will have to change first, into a different you. With a different mindset and perspective, only then will new beginnings open up to you.

[Keriix Lunaria]

How can I experience more love and express more love in my life? I am married to my best friend and have a good relationship with my parents, but I struggle to make deeper human connections. WA please.

Thank you!

Arkan Sonney B

Be curious, be open, be accepting. There are many ways to express love. Love to you may be different to another. If you can show them the love that they define it as, then that will be how you can express love to others. It’s not always just how you think of love as. Perhaps one may simply need a hug, but you are not comfortable with that, but you have to be open to understanding that the heart of the matter is that a hug is needed, and not what you think is needed. Don’t fall back into a false sense of security, into being comfortable because it’s what you are used to. Now is not the time to be complacent and sleep. Stay awake, and make sure to learn and explore what you want to do. If you give up, then life is always going to remain the same for you. Become a you that is an inspiration to others. Be a joyful muse, one that is nice at times, silly at other times. You might even come off as mischievous or cheeky, but that is how it should be. Life is all about finding the joy, and if your interactions with others can bring them joy, then that will be enough to foster the deep connection you seek. Be a muse, with yourself, and others. Don’t be dull. As you know, music come in all forms, soothing ones, fast tempo ones, weird ones. Some that go from slow to fast and others, loud to soft and even from a happy vibe to a sudden change. Be the music that others enjoy, and most importantly, be the music that you want to be.

[XianLee]

The only thing I want to know now is when and in which dimension my destined person, my soul mate, will appear. Sometimes I think I don't have a romantic soul mate in the physical dimension, so I also wonder if I have a spiritual soul mate?

I am open to both, based on Tarvos' reading I know that my energy signature is WA. However, I trust your intuition.

Thank you!

Cat Sith C

Who have you been listening to and are counselling you with such ideas that have made you lost, with this type of one way thinking. You need to retreat back, and look at what your heart is telling you. Go back to your true compass that guides you. How can someone be so unlovable that they are not able to even find love in the dimension they are living in? Soulmates number and abounds, but you have given up on a part of yourself to think that you are worthy of love. Why are you so empty of faith? Why are you downtrodden and sad? Life is a balancing act, life has work, family, relationships, and all the things that exist in the world, however the main point is that you must be enjoying life. Balance yourself with having a joy for life. Say yes to the Universe, instead of the mindset of “if only…”. Improve yourself, love yourself and life, and love will come to you.

Thank you and your companion for this lovely reading!

[Crossover93]

@Keriix Lunaria Thank you to you and your dragon for the wisdom;