Anxiety from Incubus
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So everytime I seem to get involved with pre bound incubi I get anxiety and fear. Can anyone tell me why this is? I've felt some sexual arousal with them but not much. Also I've n3ver been able to get them to sexually interact with me even if I ask outright. So because of this I've decided to get a male nympho. I'm a gay male btw. I'm hoping that since I've heard these are white arts entities that their energy will be less anxiety provoking.
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Hello friend, welcome to the forums!
It's very understandable for a first-time keeper to feel anxiety about incubi or succubi (Ubis, we call them in the community). They are beings with quite a bit of baggage in the human realm. If I had to ponder I would guess that your incubus is holding back, or going so easy on you that you can't even feel it yet, out of concern for your anxieties. He wants to make sure you are comfortable, but this is a block you have to overcome yourself. I am of the personal mind that 99% of people wanting to be a spirit keeper should not start with a Ubi but a nympho instead.
Do not fret, this doesn't mean you have made a truly wrong choice. It just means that you may connect better with your incubus after spending time practicing with the nympho. My first nympho was SUPER patient with me while I navigated the fears and doubts surrounding being a keeper, and forming a healthy bond with her helped me develop the communication skills I needed to more easily interact with my second spirit, a DA Cleopatra Djinn.
It's very understandable for a first-time keeper to feel anxiety about incubi or succubi (Ubis, we call them in the community). They are beings with quite a bit of baggage in the human realm. If I had to ponder I would guess that your incubus is holding back, or going so easy on you that you can't even feel it yet, out of concern for your anxieties. He wants to make sure you are comfortable, but this is a block you have to overcome yourself. I am of the personal mind that 99% of people wanting to be a spirit keeper should not start with a Ubi but a nympho instead.
Do not fret, this doesn't mean you have made a truly wrong choice. It just means that you may connect better with your incubus after spending time practicing with the nympho. My first nympho was SUPER patient with me while I navigated the fears and doubts surrounding being a keeper, and forming a healthy bond with her helped me develop the communication skills I needed to more easily interact with my second spirit, a DA Cleopatra Djinn.
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It's not that I have anxiety about being with the incubus.
It just seems like I'm sensing the energy they give off as anxiety for some reason. Maybe demons just aren't compatible with my personal energy.
It just seems like I'm sensing the energy they give off as anxiety for some reason. Maybe demons just aren't compatible with my personal energy.
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Beyond the paranormal, do you experience anxiety or nervousness when entering a new relationship? These feelings of fear and anxiety stem from within you, rather than being influenced by your incubus.Justinkl69 wrote: ↑Sun Jan 05, 2025 5:28 pm So everytime I seem to get involved with pre bound incubi I get anxiety and fear. Can anyone tell me why this is? I've felt some sexual arousal with them but not much. Also I've n3ver been able to get them to sexually interact with me even if I ask outright. So because of this I've decided to get a male nympho. I'm a gay male btw. I'm hoping that since I've heard these are white arts entities that their energy will be less anxiety provoking.
It's essential to build a genuine friendship and connection with him. Understand his personality, get used to his energy, don't reduce him to a mere object fulfilling your desires on command. If your interest in Spirit Keeping revolves solely around sexual gratification, you're completely missing the deeper purpose of this practice. These spirits have so much more to offer than just pleasure.
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HelloJustinkl69 wrote: ↑Sun Jan 05, 2025 5:28 pm So everytime I seem to get involved with pre bound incubi I get anxiety and fear. Can anyone tell me why this is? I've felt some sexual arousal with them but not much. Also I've n3ver been able to get them to sexually interact with me even if I ask outright. So because of this I've decided to get a male nympho. I'm a gay male btw. I'm hoping that since I've heard these are white arts entities that their energy will be less anxiety provoking.
Although I may not be able to definitively pin down the source of or the reason for the feeling of anxiety, I suspect the solution to the dilemma/problem could be to improve the way you source/contact Incubi.
Could be - as you didn't say how you've come into contact with Incubi, I'm making an assumption that that could be a factor.
This link is to a safe, protected way to Invoke Incubi who will be well matched to you. As well as having been created by expert, experienced, reliable practitioners, it's also free.
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You may also want to use a psychic protection for yourself and the room you're in when making the contact, as this will help keep out stray/unpleasant energies and help you stay relaxed. Grounding techniques help with that too.
Finally, you may want to think of Incubi differently. Christianity seems to have been responsible for labelling any kind of sexual being demonic - ie evil/malicious. I know there are some occult traditions that are happy to work with certain kinds of dark being labelled as 'demonic' but who aren't malicious or evil.
Creepy Hollows does not work with or conjure malicious beings. It classifies Demons' by their malicious and evil nature.
In Creepy Hollows' definition, Incubi are not demons but simply dark energy sexual beings.
https://www.creepyhollows.com/faq/index ... ht=incubus
If there's any hint of worry anxiety in your mind somewhere over their allegedly demonic status, this could cause some kind of block affecting interaction. Plus, if someone is new to working with spirits, immediate strong connection is by no means guaranteed.
Not the resident expert. Just another spirit keeper. Since 2017.
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