Fear of reincarnation?

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Kicikeen wrote: Tue Jan 14, 2025 12:54 am I’m sorry you have been dealing with this fear and anxiety. It may be helpful to remember there are many, many places to reincarnate other than Earth. This is one of the hardest places to be bc we forget who we really are (but our souls learn a lot much quicker). I suspect you are here to help raise the vibration of the planet. You may have spent your previous incarnations in higher realms and so being here is exceptionally challenging for you. Thinking about the Universe and Spirits may give you so much peace because it connects you with your true Home.

A helpful thing to remember is that you have free will and won’t be forced into anything. You can spend as much time as a spirit on the other side as you like, and you can choose where to go next. <3
Thank you for your kind words. That makes me feel a little better.
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Aphelion18 wrote: Tue Jan 14, 2025 6:32 am Hi, first, thank you for being vulnerable about your thoughts and where you currently are at.

Reincarnation has been interesting for me, on a personal level I have had so so so so many lives and I find myself often wanting to go home to a place that is not Earth. I have struggled with feeling rooted here or belonging in general. That has shifted a bit. Realizing that I am my own home and so is every past, concurrent, and future version of me, at least in my reality, it has connected me closer to the shades of me, it has created a calmness that I used to struggle with (sometimes still do). So, when thoughts come around fear as it relates to reincarnation, I always ask myself to look deeper. I seek to understand.

When you say you fear reincarnation, what does that mean? What about it do you fear the most? I also picked up on what sounds like you struggling with your presence on this Earth in the vein of purpose, is that accurate?

Fear is an umbrella for a myriad of other emotions, you get to discover yourself and as underwhelming as that may sound, your truth once you find it will be greater than anyone else's, because it belongs to you.

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I don't know exactly how to describe it, but I can say this: The thought of being born again and again in this world hurts me a lot. Sometimes I feel as if I am floating in a very deep and endless void. I don't know what causes these feelings. I am also trying to find my purpose for coming to Earth, but every day I feel as if I am going further and further away from the path I am supposed to take. Years ago I lost the desire to go out of the house. I don't feel a close connection with my family, I can't tell them what I am going through.
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CH Moderator wrote: Tue Jan 14, 2025 7:46 am
XianLee wrote: Mon Jan 13, 2025 9:49 pm There's a feeling of helplessness that's been with me for years. Every time I think that I am going to be reincarnated, I feel a very deep pain in the centre of my chest. First the centre of my chest burns and then there is a deep feeling of emptiness. Every time I think that I will be reincarnated in this reality, I feel lost.These feelings changed my whole life. The world I was in lost its meaning. I keep asking myself why I'm here. The only thing that relaxes me is to think about the universe and spirits. Does anyone else feel like me and what do you suggest I do to overcome these feelings?
Based on what you've described, it is encouraged to talk to a doctor or therapist about your feelings, just to really make sure everything is alright.
I went to a therapist many times, but none of them understood me or wanted to deal with me.
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Jupiter wrote: Tue Jan 14, 2025 2:35 pm
XianLee wrote: Mon Jan 13, 2025 9:49 pm There's a feeling of helplessness that's been with me for years. Every time I think that I am going to be reincarnated, I feel a very deep pain in the centre of my chest. First the centre of my chest burns and then there is a deep feeling of emptiness. Every time I think that I will be reincarnated in this reality, I feel lost.These feelings changed my whole life. The world I was in lost its meaning. I keep asking myself why I'm here. The only thing that relaxes me is to think about the universe and spirits. Does anyone else feel like me and what do you suggest I do to overcome these feelings?
I hear you, and totally understand where you're coming from. I myself have had similar feelings in the past. I'd be lying if I said they didn't occasionally pop up. I've really gone through madness and emptiness to find me.

Do you have any spirits who help with uplifting and healing, such as angels? Even Arkan Sonney, and some dragons from CH shop can help bring more joy.

I suggest working with your spirits, and your own guardian angels to help you release and purge. We often take baggage with us into the next lifetime, and so journaling and actively working through your feelings, even if you need to cry them out, can be very beneficial.

As for incarnation/reincarnation - we all come here of our free will, regardless of whether or not we remember it.

Recently, I recovered a past life memory and relived the experience of losing my lover, and after I lost him, I committed suicide to join him because the pain was too great - and into this life I had carried it through my unconscious. Once I let it go and processed it, it stopped affecting my day to day life.

It's possible you could benefit from a spiritually oriented hypnotherapist or past-life regressionist who can assist you in going through the healing journey.

Some other things to consider are where your energy is going and if something or someone could be siphoning it. When we've got an energy drain it can really take a toll on our mental health and make issues we're facing feel that much worse, so look around you and see if there's any situation/person/thing that could be causing you to give too much or is taking too much from you.

Another angle to consider is diet and nutrition - are you getting proper nutrients? Deficiencies can exacerbate depression, for example, so make sure you take good care of yourself in that area too and keep your health nice and balanced. I'm not saying this is the reason for your melancholy, but you can ease your pain by tackling issues from all directions until you finally get to the bottom of the problem once and for all.

Wishing you the best and hang in there <3
You're right, it might have something to do with my past lives. I plan to do some work on this in the near future. Thank you for your reply, I appreciate it. Mostly I don't see people other than my family and a few work colleagues. I haven't eaten meat and animal products for years. These 3 months have been very difficult for me and I started eating animal products again. Sometimes I feel as if I am betraying myself. I don't know what to do on this Earth, where to go. Sometimes I question whether I have a purpose, but I don't get an answer.
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angeldark wrote: Tue Jan 14, 2025 6:19 pm I also never wanted to reincarnate again, many humans have the same feeling, you are not alone. My coven has done a special deal for me, removed me from the circle of reincarnation. So i can live after that Life in my dreamworld. I know many people that benefit greatly from reincarnation but it is nothing for me. Am happy i will never be reborn again. I wish you the best on your journey. Am sure you will fond your way dear.
We share the same feelings. Every time I think about the cycle of reincarnation I get a headache and feel lost. You are very lucky, you found a way. I'm looking for mine. I hope I find a way. I want to go on an endless exploration of the universe. I feel very close to the universe and I feel as if it is watching me all the time. It gives me some comfort. Thank you for your kind words, I appreciate it. :)
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ASTER wrote: Tue Jan 14, 2025 7:56 pm I don't have fear of reincarnation... Maybe I am not supposed to reply here.

I wish to add a little of my own perception here though... It's a peaceful intuitive perspective on this matter for me to think that my God Head /Universal Deity knows me and will gives me choices to chose from, when I'm at the other side. :)
That answer gave me chills. It's so strange. I felt something stirring inside me. Thank you, I appreciate your wisdom.
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XianLee wrote: Mon Jan 13, 2025 9:49 pm There's a feeling of helplessness that's been with me for years. Every time I think that I am going to be reincarnated, I feel a very deep pain in the centre of my chest. First the centre of my chest burns and then there is a deep feeling of emptiness. Every time I think that I will be reincarnated in this reality, I feel lost.These feelings changed my whole life. The world I was in lost its meaning. I keep asking myself why I'm here. The only thing that relaxes me is to think about the universe and spirits. Does anyone else feel like me and what do you suggest I do to overcome these feelings?
I used to have a fear of reincarnation a long time ago. To think that we will move on to the next life with no recollection of this one is just... unsettling. It makes me fear death honestly. But, I have knowledge in THIS lifetime of two of my past lives -- I was Eve from the Garden of Eden surprisingly (my spirits told me and CH confirmed when I went to have her bound -- there is no Eve to bind!) and as a high priestess of a temple in ancient Egypt as confirmed by my spirits as well (Anubis visited me years ago and confirmed this). I am hoping that in the next life I will remember these things. I hope my spirits and tulpas come with me and that I'll meet them again.
I am a tulpamancer. I mainly work with tulpas and tulpamancy, though I've just recently been recalling and working with my spirits. I'm an experienced eclectic witch, and dabble in witchcraft from time to time.
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santiesgirl wrote: Fri Feb 07, 2025 7:27 pm
XianLee wrote: Mon Jan 13, 2025 9:49 pm There's a feeling of helplessness that's been with me for years. Every time I think that I am going to be reincarnated, I feel a very deep pain in the centre of my chest. First the centre of my chest burns and then there is a deep feeling of emptiness. Every time I think that I will be reincarnated in this reality, I feel lost.These feelings changed my whole life. The world I was in lost its meaning. I keep asking myself why I'm here. The only thing that relaxes me is to think about the universe and spirits. Does anyone else feel like me and what do you suggest I do to overcome these feelings?
I used to have a fear of reincarnation a long time ago. To think that we will move on to the next life with no recollection of this one is just... unsettling. It makes me fear death honestly. But, I have knowledge in THIS lifetime of two of my past lives -- I was Eve from the Garden of Eden surprisingly (my spirits told me and CH confirmed when I went to have her bound -- there is no Eve to bind!) and as a high priestess of a temple in ancient Egypt as confirmed by my spirits as well (Anubis visited me years ago and confirmed this). I am hoping that in the next life I will remember these things. I hope my spirits and tulpas come with me and that I'll meet them again.
I feel the same way. To think that I can't use all the knowledge I've gained in this life in other lives... But that's not the worst thing. Worst of all, I feel an irresistible attraction to the universe. Every moment I'm here, I feel like I'm missing something.Not knowing anything about myself also affects me a lot. That's why I'll be in contact with CH in the near future. I'm going to try to stop reincarnating no matter what happens in this life. I don't want to spend every day in agony. The information you've learnt is certainly very interesting. I'm especially surprised that you're Eve. I hope we remember this information in our other lives. I've seen a few spells about this in CH. You should definitely have a look.

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https://shop.creepyhollows.com/next-life-power-orb.html
https://shop.creepyhollows.com/INFLUENC ... TO-BE.html
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I don’t have a fear of reincarnation! I’m actually looking forward to what other lives I can experience. Learning new things is always awesome, and knowing past information would definitely somehow influence the decisions I make in the next life. I embrace mystery and think it’s fun not knowing what’s to come. The joy is in finding out, such as realising me and @Hitthuginn had a past life together as monogamous mates from a CH reading, that none of our spirits could find out about! Imagine if I had already knew that, would I have just sought him out again? Never being able to experience any new souls to love in the process, that scares me. Souls are here to grow and learn ❤️ every reincarnation could link to new connections, diverse immortals and a myriad of other amazing experiences.
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XianLee wrote: Mon Jan 13, 2025 9:49 pm There's a feeling of helplessness that's been with me for years. Every time I think that I am going to be reincarnated, I feel a very deep pain in the centre of my chest. First the centre of my chest burns and then there is a deep feeling of emptiness. Every time I think that I will be reincarnated in this reality, I feel lost.These feelings changed my whole life. The world I was in lost its meaning. I keep asking myself why I'm here. The only thing that relaxes me is to think about the universe and spirits. Does anyone else feel like me and what do you suggest I do to overcome these feelings?
Just reading this.... and not reading the other posts yet.

Please explain more.

This is more common than most think. so you feel like you have just given up on life and lost your spark to live. Or your tapping into a past life pain and your not understanding why your doing it or how your doing it.... why i want more information......

because its two different things....

for example, I believe I could be wrong but if i had a life time in lyra...... several of those planets are GONE. so the feeling of going home can feel hopeless. but its all a lie....... because home is inside of you.....

The spark to live is a choice and its within you as well. I am stuggling to love myself myself. I have been trying to get my spark back since I lost my mother. but in reality my mom is fine. but im not processing the emotions or something i been trying to work on....

there is way more to your story than ur giving us.
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