Expectations

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Expectations

Postby Str1x » Mon Jun 04, 2018 11:56 pm

Hi all,

Having done a bit of reading on here, I decided to wait before inviting a spirit into my life until I’ve learnt a bit more, practised my meditation/visualisation etc.
When the time comes I feel like it would be an ubi that I’ll choose to bond with.

The reason for my post is I’m just wondering what level of companionship I could hope to gain from her?

For example, in the past I’ve been in an abusive relationship and there have been times where I’ve just phased out of what’s going on around me and I’ve just thought to myself “what do I do?”

In a situation like that could I ‘phase out’ and ask her if she’s there, if she can guide me?
To what extent could she support me?

Part two:
I’ve seen a few posts mention the pontential danger of inviting spirits into your life, however, I’ve also read that CH implement safety and protection into their practices.
If this is the case, does a certain element of danger still remain?

Thanks in advance for reading, and for your time.


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Re: Expectations

Postby MidnightMusings » Wed Jun 06, 2018 7:33 am

Str1x wrote:Hi all,

Having done a bit of reading on here, I decided to wait before inviting a spirit into my life until I’ve learnt a bit more, practised my meditation/visualisation etc.
When the time comes I feel like it would be an ubi that I’ll choose to bond with.

The reason for my post is I’m just wondering what level of companionship I could hope to gain from her?

Heya!

What level would you like to gain from her? If you choose a custom conjuration, she most possibly will match with your own beliefs. Ubi can be lovers, friends, comrades. They can be caring, it depends on what you want. The right one will come through.

Str1x wrote:For example, in the past I’ve been in an abusive relationship and there have been times where I’ve just phased out of what’s going on around me and I’ve just thought to myself “what do I do?”

In a situation like that could I ‘phase out’ and ask her if she’s there, if she can guide me?
To what extent could she support me?


It depends on your openness when you phase out. Sometimes people can block themselves when they have trouble and are not able to hear or feel their spirits. She'll be there if you call to her and if you ask her to guide you, she surely would do her best to do so. But you might not always feel it if you're anxious or troubled. You can practice your focus on her in such a time.
Str1x wrote:Part two:
I’ve seen a few posts mention the pontential danger of inviting spirits into your life, however, I’ve also read that CH implement safety and protection into their practices.
If this is the case, does a certain element of danger still remain?

Thanks in advance for reading, and for your time.


There's a risk in everything. CH is very safe and they do a great job. You should read about honest sellers here in the forum, where you can't go very wrong with. There a fake ones out there, who do care nothing for your safety and that has the risk. Another risk hides in the ranking of arts.. do you know about the WA, DA and BA concept? If you choose to invite a Ubi in your life, keep in mind that she'll be DA. That means she can have mood swings and choose to do good or bad. But if you treat the spirit with respect and love, you most likely will receive the same. You might also be affected by her moods and during bonding it is common to feel a slight headache or maybe have one or two nightmares but it is nothing against what wonderful experience you can make with her. 2lv

All the best ~


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Re: Expectations

Postby Str1x » Wed Jun 06, 2018 5:31 pm

MidnightMusings wrote:What level would you like to gain from her? If you choose a custom conjuration, she most possibly will match with your own beliefs. Ubi can be lovers, friends, comrades. They can be caring, it depends on what you want. The right one will come through.

It depends on your openness when you phase out. Sometimes people can block themselves when they have trouble and are not able to hear or feel their spirits. She'll be there if you call to her and if you ask her to guide you, she surely would do her best to do so. But you might not always feel it if you're anxious or troubled. You can practice your focus on her in such a time.


Thank you so much for your response this is really helpful! :D
All of the above really, is that something I should list in the customer notes at the time of order, or would she just ‘know’?


MidnightMusings wrote:There's a risk in everything. CH is very safe and they do a great job. You should read about honest sellers here in the forum, where you can't go very wrong with. There a fake ones out there, who do care nothing for your safety and that has the risk. Another risk hides in the ranking of arts.. do you know about the WA, DA and BA concept? If you choose to invite a Ubi in your life, keep in mind that she'll be DA. That means she can have mood swings and choose to do good or bad. But if you treat the spirit with respect and love, you most likely will receive the same. You might also be affected by her moods and during bonding it is common to feel a slight headache or maybe have one or two nightmares but it is nothing against what wonderful experience you can make with her. 2lv

All the best ~


Yes! :D
WA = inherently good
DA = like us
BA = inherently bad ?

I would very much like to think I would treat her just like I would family; with love and respect. (I’ve already read about ways I can show my appreciation on here).
I’m more worried for my family than I am myself; one has a weak heart. I’d never forgive myself if something bad happened to them because of me.

Thanks again for your time. :)


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Re: Expectations

Postby MidnightMusings » Wed Jun 06, 2018 6:25 pm

Str1x wrote:Thank you so much for your response this is really helpful! :D
All of the above really, is that something I should list in the customer notes at the time of order, or would she just ‘know’?


No problem : ) I personally wouldn't list it, as I know by experience that the spirit coming to you will always be right for you. They are attracted by your energy pattern and feel what you desire. If you feel safer by doing so, you could add that you like her to be loving or something the like.

Str1x wrote:Yes! :D
WA = inherently good
DA = like us
BA = inherently bad ?

I would very much like to think I would treat her just like I would family; with love and respect. (I’ve already read about ways I can show my appreciation on here).
I’m more worried for my family than I am myself; one has a weak heart. I’d never forgive myself if something bad happened to them because of me.

Thanks again for your time. :)


Yeah that's what the rankings are like basically^^
most of us on here treat their companions like family and honestly, it is a great way to do so. You built deep connections with it. Normally the spirits only show themselves to the human they're bound to. But if you like to be sure just tell her or make it a house rule:
Only show yourself to me and no one else!
You should have house rules ready either way ;)


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Re: Expectations

Postby Str1x » Wed Jun 06, 2018 8:13 pm

Brilliant; I know where to direct my research next, then. : )
Thanks again for your time and help, I’m very grateful!


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