A Abchanchu Chose Me And I'm New To Spirit Keeping. Any Tips?

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A Abchanchu Chose Me And I'm New To Spirit Keeping. Any Tips?

Postby Lovely_Moon » Sat Jan 05, 2019 10:30 pm

Hello there, I recently learned that a Abchanchu vampire chose me through reverse adoption. I'm still in the learning process of spirit keeping so I was going to wait to get one but apparently she (The vampire) thought I was ready. I still get a bit skittish with manifestations but i'm better at it. I know that Abchanchu vampires can manifest as noises and i'm sure that'll freak me out. I'm not too sure what to do here. Her notes said she prefers to be alone but will speak if spoken to...so I guess that'll help me a bit. I'm unsure. If anyone has any tips that'd be really helpful


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Re: A Abchanchu Chose Me And I'm New To Spirit Keeping. Any Tips?

Postby Unclesid » Mon Jan 07, 2019 9:00 pm

you'll be fine, just be respectful.



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Postby quantumflux » Mon Jan 07, 2019 10:53 pm

Have fun, be safe, don’t do drugs.


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Re: A Abchanchu Chose Me And I'm New To Spirit Keeping. Any Tips?

Postby Jasmin » Mon Jan 07, 2019 11:44 pm

You'll definitely need some house rules regarding manifestations, especially if you're easily scared.



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Re: A Abchanchu Chose Me And I'm New To Spirit Keeping. Any Tips?

Postby MidnightMusings » Tue Jan 08, 2019 4:42 pm

Lovely_Moon wrote:Hello there, I recently learned that a Abchanchu vampire chose me through reverse adoption. I'm still in the learning process of spirit keeping so I was going to wait to get one but apparently she (The vampire) thought I was ready. I still get a bit skittish with manifestations but i'm better at it. I know that Abchanchu vampires can manifest as noises and i'm sure that'll freak me out. I'm not too sure what to do here. Her notes said she prefers to be alone but will speak if spoken to...so I guess that'll help me a bit. I'm unsure. If anyone has any tips that'd be really helpful


I wouldn't worry too much about it. If the Abchanchu chose you, she had a reason and if you got her from trusted sellers (I guess the CH shop) there's no reason to be afraid. Like others said before, just be respectful in your approach :)



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Re: A Abchanchu Chose Me And I'm New To Spirit Keeping. Any Tips?

Postby Lovely_Moon » Tue Jan 08, 2019 5:52 pm

MidnightMusings wrote:
Lovely_Moon wrote:Hello there, I recently learned that a Abchanchu vampire chose me through reverse adoption. I'm still in the learning process of spirit keeping so I was going to wait to get one but apparently she (The vampire) thought I was ready. I still get a bit skittish with manifestations but i'm better at it. I know that Abchanchu vampires can manifest as noises and i'm sure that'll freak me out. I'm not too sure what to do here. Her notes said she prefers to be alone but will speak if spoken to...so I guess that'll help me a bit. I'm unsure. If anyone has any tips that'd be really helpful


I wouldn't worry too much about it. If the Abchanchu chose you, she had a reason and if you got her from trusted sellers (I guess the CH shop) there's no reason to be afraid. Like others said before, just be respectful in your approach :)



Thank you, I was thinking of trying to contact her through meditation since I have her name but not her vessel. I was able to call my friend's Nympho before her Vessel arrived by just meditating and calling out her name telepathically. I wasn't able to do much but I think I felt her presence behind me. I saw that Abchanchu's like Dragons Blood, would it be safe to burn it as an offering? I know the incense has some purifying ability so I would hate to harm her in some way


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Re: A Abchanchu Chose Me And I'm New To Spirit Keeping. Any Tips?

Postby Velexs » Wed Jan 09, 2019 6:41 am

Jasmin wrote:You'll definitely need some house rules regarding manifestations, especially if you're easily scared.


This :,D I had an unbound Abchanchu around me.. dunno if he’s still lurking around, maybe as sometimes I get this familiar chill down my spine, but I have a feeling that is the one spirit who was spooking me now that I’ve kind of got a feel for the Incubus I have bound lol.

I was seeing a full on shadow figure with red eyes hovering by my bed staring at me, and it would overwhelm me so much that one night I jumped up and asked him to at least give me warning if he was going to manifest or appear in a way that won’t scare the life out of me, and than the intense manifestations stopped.

I got curious after realizing he listened to me. The next time I seen what I think was him was a very vivid man walking up my stairs. Seen the reflection in the window, and when I looked into the stairway there was nothing there xD freaked out a little again lol but instead of running like a chicken I tried to talk to him, asked his name, and heard a voice answer me but it was muffled so I couldn’t make it out. Deff not the incubus’s name though, and the Incubus though overwhelming rarely doesn’t instill complete breathless panic in me lmao.

But, I’ve also read so many saying Abchanchu’s aren’t for beginners, or the inexperienced so I was hesitant to further interact with him, and it didn’t make sense to me because if that’s who’s been manifesting so strongly to me despite not being bound he’s done nothing but respect my wishes when I made it clear he was freaking me out.

Now, I’m more curious about him than ever lately 1h

These days I miss the intense manifestations despite them scaring me :,) sometimes I also wonder if bindings hinder those interactions also because they’re meant to be safer. I got my first binding because I figured maybe it would make it easier for me to distinguish who’s around me, and it has to an extent, but I think I prefer them unbound, though it’s nice knowing they want to be bound to you when they make it known.

I don’t go as far as house rules, my only rule is mutual respect and I haven’t had any issues thus far. If I ever do experience needing stricter boundaries, I’d set them though. I’ve noticed as I said, if you’re verbal about something when it’s too much, whether bound or unbound, they tend to respect it if they mean you no harm.

So my advice is, if you’re nervous about the Abchanchu, just express what it is that you’re not comfortable with if she comes off too overwhelming. Chances are if she hasn’t scared the life out of you yet, she knows and respects you enough not to lol.



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Re: A Abchanchu Chose Me And I'm New To Spirit Keeping. Any Tips?

Postby MidnightMusings » Mon Jan 14, 2019 9:40 am

Lovely_Moon wrote:
MidnightMusings wrote:
Lovely_Moon wrote:Hello there, I recently learned that a Abchanchu vampire chose me through reverse adoption. I'm still in the learning process of spirit keeping so I was going to wait to get one but apparently she (The vampire) thought I was ready. I still get a bit skittish with manifestations but i'm better at it. I know that Abchanchu vampires can manifest as noises and i'm sure that'll freak me out. I'm not too sure what to do here. Her notes said she prefers to be alone but will speak if spoken to...so I guess that'll help me a bit. I'm unsure. If anyone has any tips that'd be really helpful


I wouldn't worry too much about it. If the Abchanchu chose you, she had a reason and if you got her from trusted sellers (I guess the CH shop) there's no reason to be afraid. Like others said before, just be respectful in your approach :)



Thank you, I was thinking of trying to contact her through meditation since I have her name but not her vessel. I was able to call my friend's Nympho before her Vessel arrived by just meditating and calling out her name telepathically. I wasn't able to do much but I think I felt her presence behind me. I saw that Abchanchu's like Dragons Blood, would it be safe to burn it as an offering? I know the incense has some purifying ability so I would hate to harm her in some way


It's best to ask her if she would like it. I have burned quite a few incenses with purifying quality, though it has never harmed my Vampires or Demons, or made them angry. After all, you're not doing it to offend, but to either clear the space or make an offering. A lot of them do understand our motives and reason, which is why they mostly appreciate our actions :) but to be sure, just ask her or let her know of your intend. You might get a feel in your gut which tells you what's best.



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Re: A Abchanchu Chose Me And I'm New To Spirit Keeping. Any Tips?

Postby Ellie44 » Mon Jan 14, 2019 10:08 pm

I have had two spirits that knew I had a fear of them and still chose me. They were patient and loving until I saw there was no need to be. I'd imagine she is expecting you to be a little uneasy at first. They always seem to know what they are getting into so to speak.

My vamps I wasn't anxious for, yet they are so loving and fiercely protective. I adore them. I have one who liked to startle me and I just asked to not to do that and she stopped. She now gently touches my face to say hello and then will make her grand entrance so to speak. I have one who is very unsocial and his purpose was just protection he felt I needed. He's not overly chatty but if I say something he will engage....sounds similar to you. He's like that grumpy uncle who everyone loves, he won't let anyone hurt his family yet you get one or two word answers out of.

I would suggest just sitting and asking to feel her energy. For me it is a way to communicate and I always develop such deeper connection once I feel their energy. It might be a good place to start. That said listen to your gut. I find what works amazing for someone else just doesn't for me. <3


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