LightMaiden wrote: ↑Tue Oct 17, 2023 11:22 am I have been out of touch with my paranormal family for years. Then one day i thought of them again. That night I had an erotic dream about my beautiful succubus entity. She still loves me. She's still there willing and waiting to take up where we left off.

Vipera aspis atra wrote: ↑Sat Oct 21, 2023 12:42 am A lot of people talk about taking breaks, losing touch, etc. but this really does not have to be a thing. Anyone spirit-keeping to spirit-keep (solely for the companionship and influence) should be working toward a situation where they can have a casual relationship with the spirits that is interwoven with their everyday dealings.

Meaning, after the initial bonding period, you'd be fine making simpler acknowledgments and inviting the spirits to manifest when and where they wish to in order to further your connection. You can connect to the spirits while doing your work, going grocery shopping, sleeping, absolutely anything. You don't need to make space that is solely dedicated to them as commonly as you may think, just to engage or be continuing the bond. Sharing in your life as you live it is enough. There are many ways to lead this path.
As spirits are incorporeal - there's no need to disconnect or allow the sense of disconnect to take over, the same boundaries in communication are not there as what we can have in physical relations. They can be with you, hear or feel you instantly and their reciprocation can come through endless avenues.

I only post this because I know many keepers have felt like they've lost touch entirely with the spirits, and usually because they feel if they're not spending devoted time or work on skills, then there's been a setback. It is true that you can be less tuned in for periods, and that the connection can always improve, but there's no reason you can't keep the connection alive through much more basic methods.
For instance - recite the names of different spirits on different days, or recite all of their names every day at some point as a meditation of acknowledgment. That's all you need to do in times where it's not otherwise possible to focus on connection. By reciting their names, acknowledging them or thinking of them you're maintaining an alignment with them - you are staying at least essentially tuned in.

They are influencing you and interacting with your mundane life in ways you probably cannot imagine. The above I'm describing and even the smallest of shared offerings is very easy to do no matter your lifestyle, and you never have to feel wary of disconnect again.

The bare minimum would be to keep them in your thoughts; it might not seem like it makes a difference but it absolutely does. After establishing the connection you need to acknowledge the connection is there and happening, because they don't go away simply due to you not spending time specific to them.

Vipera aspis atra wrote: ↑Sat Oct 21, 2023 12:42 am A lot of people talk about taking breaks, losing touch, etc. but this really does not have to be a thing. Anyone spirit-keeping to spirit-keep (solely for the companionship and influence) should be working toward a situation where they can have a casual relationship with the spirits that is interwoven with their everyday dealings.

Meaning, after the initial bonding period, you'd be fine making simpler acknowledgments and inviting the spirits to manifest when and where they wish to in order to further your connection. You can connect to the spirits while doing your work, going grocery shopping, sleeping, absolutely anything. You don't need to make space that is solely dedicated to them as commonly as you may think, just to engage or be continuing the bond. Sharing in your life as you live it is enough. There are many ways to lead this path.
As spirits are incorporeal - there's no need to disconnect or allow the sense of disconnect to take over, the same boundaries in communication are not there as what we can have in physical relations. They can be with you, hear or feel you instantly and their reciprocation can come through endless avenues.

I only post this because I know many keepers have felt like they've lost touch entirely with the spirits, and usually because they feel if they're not spending devoted time or work on skills, then there's been a setback. It is true that you can be less tuned in for periods, and that the connection can always improve, but there's no reason you can't keep the connection alive through much more basic methods.
For instance - recite the names of different spirits on different days, or recite all of their names every day at some point as a meditation of acknowledgment. That's all you need to do in times where it's not otherwise possible to focus on connection. By reciting their names, acknowledging them or thinking of them you're maintaining an alignment with them.